unhappy1993 / Jan 17 2010 18.39

Hello sorry to hear what your going through at the moment have you tryed talking to your mum about the situation and see another way of sorting it . Shouting is not going to help its going to make it 10x worse and your going to get yourself in more trouble i understand can uderstand how frustrated you are with whats happing to you but you need to be carm and talk to your mum about it and try not to loose your temper with her just be polite if she rasises her voice at you let her finish what she has got to say then afterwards you can but dont but it cause then she will defoo sayy No to anything . Your mum or dad do have the right to take things of you if you have been naughty as they lol this is to punish you so you will not do it again .

Talk to her you never know she might give you your phone and latop back tell her how sorry you are .

Hope this helps

STAY CARM! 

Take Caree

xx

harriet0229 / Jan 17 2010 19.25

 I've tried talking to her, she doesn't listen, I've tried explaining about everything and how is just talking to my friends, 'being naughty'? I haven't done anything other than talk to them, and she thinks im a slag, i hate my parents! and there's no one else i can talk to about it! they shouldn't be aloud to take all means of communication off you, it's unfair! I just want to go somewhere where i never have to talk to or see her ever again! i honestly want to! and i know i can do it, but i just don't know how, or where! :( x

unhappy1993 / Jan 18 2010 12.39

Okay things arent working out for you is your mum calling you names like eg slag ? if she is then there is some thing you can do about it because this is very wrong !

You say you feel unhappy where you are what about you stay with a freind i know you have to have parent premission but maybe say to your mum i need some time out to carm down and you do to .

Im not saying you where been naughty by talking to your freinds i thought you might of been doing something you shouldnt off because you didnt give much detail why there are taking things away from you.

Write back if u want too

xx

harriet0229 / Jan 18 2010 15.33

 I asked if I could stay with a friend or my grandparents but she said 'NO :@' and yeah she has been saying i'm a slag and slut and whore and she allows my brother to as well :'( 

Harriet Ann x

unhappy1993 / Jan 18 2010 15.52

Hello i can see you are very angry ! Okay as for the name calling this is very wrong and should NOT be aloud as its making you very upset your mum or your brother shouldnt name calling you this its Bullying and you need to tell someone about it such as a teacher who can talk to your mum and get this STOPPED!

No ones mum should be calling there children names and making them feel low its not accetable behaviour espically for an adult .

Talk to an teacher if you can or write it down for then this is the only way you are going to be able to sort it out if you where to talk to somone so please take my advice and tell someone about it.

Hope this helps , Write back if u wantt too

xxx

 

harriet0229 / Jan 18 2010 16.06

 I can't tell anyone at school, I don't want to get too many people involved it's not fair, and it will just make it worse, i just know i don't want to stay here no more, I tried talking to her and i tried telling her i wanted to move out, she just said i was stupid and sent me to my room :( which is no point because i have no privacy there, i'm not even aloud to get changed without my door open :( 

Harriet Ann x

unhappy1993 / Jan 18 2010 17.19

Heyyyaaa :) !X 

Okay i understand the only other advice i could offer you is to talk to an chidline coucellour and see they might have any ideas how to sort this ! But im sure they will say you need to talk another person about it eg: Teacher

Sorry i cant be much of a help

xx

littlemissgettingbullied / Jan 26 2010 15.54

hiya

u should be proud of the things u av dont run away from home or any think and u could always contact the police dats what childline told me if u ever feel in danger calll the poice and u wont be wasteing there time just sayin and u should b proud of the stuff u av cuz theres some familys who cant afford going on msn and having there own phon and i dont av a phone and im not poor but my parents say im 2 young so u should be proud of the stuff u av my mum camplains dat i go on the childline site cuz of somethink o well dat dont matter

u could always talk to a childline counciller about it through phone or either a 1-2-1 chat

hope i helped bye