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Hompophobic parents

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    gothchick / Dec 11 2009 23.09

     I told my parents ages ago I was bi, then my mum started to freak out today when I just mentioned it, even tho she knew! She flipped saying I was obviously not her kid, and I was disgusting and a slut. It was so awful. I don't think she'd hurt me bt I'm realli freaked out and I don't know what to do. 

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    Confused1996 / Dec 04 2009 10.16

    Awww, that must have been awful for you! Gosh....

    Have you told anyone about this like a close friend or family friend? Maybe that would help, some people dont accept bi, gay, lesbien or trans people becouse they dont know alot about it. I would suggest talking to your mum  about how you feel but your obviously upset about how your mum reacted. Have you tried doing the 1-2-1 childnline chat? If not then try it. I wish you all my luck, lots of love xx

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    kizza66 / Dec 09 2009 22.47

    This happened to my friend, basically what i suggest, talk to someone about it, (if no-one knows, consider telling a friend) and just remember that they DO still love you, they're just confused. There are alot of online advice reports for parents of homsexuals, perhaps give one to them? it explains things like, its not you're choice, its not a disease etc

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    babyygrrl / Dec 11 2009 23.09

    Aww babee  ii bet yooh're feeling sooo bad now, shes yor mumm, she's got no ritght to make you feel bad, and if youre suspecting she might hit you you need to tell someone! I'd explain to her you're not disgusting and I'd even say she's the one being disgusting byy abandoining her own daughter, and being bi doesnt make you a slut, most straight girls dont want to sleep wiv every boy they see (well i dont anywayy) so why do ppl think bi lasses want to sleep wiv everyone? It just doesnt make sense and tell her its not your fault God made you that way and if she doesn't like it its her problem,

    but more importantly you need to remember your mum does love you, she's probably just confused, and that your being proper brave.xx

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