Confused1996 / Dec 04 2009 10.10

Aww hun, i know what its like =(

i'm scared of admitting it aswell, i've also only told a few people, its difficult i know. Maybe you shouldn't tell your parents until your completely sure. its a difficult proscess, im still trying to work it out myself, dont let it get you down. Just carry on. Have a think about it. i also think that if you haven't told your closest friends the one's you've known for years then maybe you need to get to know them a bit better. They aren't your true friends if they don't accept you for who you are. Good luck hun, hope i helped a little!

Lots of love xxx

Vrulzalot / Dec 10 2009 18.14

to wolfchild, im a lesbian and lots of people i know at school know i am, i love this girl and she found out she hasnt talked to be for 2 weeks and im realy scared, i cant tell my mum either but if your going to then say, "mum would you mind if i was bisexual" and then see what she says then carrie the convosation on!

from V

TheHappyPerson / Dec 11 2009 23.50

I can sympathise. I've not long known I was bi, and would quite like to tell people, but one of my friends keeps teasing me, in a friendly way mind, that I'm lesbian and then everyone else will defend my supposed straightness and its awkward...

I agree with Confused1996. If you tell your friends and they hate you for it, they weren't your true friends to begin with. You should tell people your confident will take it well, and if they don't leave them to cool off for a while and rethink their decisions; it may just be an impulse reaction.

Also, if you've told online friends, maybe it would help to tell your other friends online as well, instead of face to face? It might make it easier to say or drop into a conversation.

Hope this helped, good luck! xx

ray4644 / Dec 22 2009 7.43

After months of confusion, i have decided that i am a bi but i dont want to tell people because i have made fun of bi's and gays before so it would be ironic if i told anyone. but i am confused because i only wanna be with one girl only one girl. the rest are boys!!! :S but i know how ya feel!!!!

Love R -x- 

Animalz / Jan 03 2010 1.45

my friend is a bi to ....you dont have to admit it...cos it can get worse if they start to hate you...so dont worry...call childline and then problem solved

AoifeBabess / Jan 14 2010 16.24

Please dont be Scared its your life its not your fault so dont feel different from everyone and dont listen to people who make fun of you because its dumb :(