lululucie96 / Jan 19 2010 17.34

well, do u love girls aswell? or just boys?

if u love girls as well then u mite not even need to let it effect u, it could even b a phase. however if ur 100% sure that ur gay then u cant just 4get it. maybe its best to w8 until u leave school to properly come out as alot of young people r very small minded.

as 4 the wife and kids, if u are gay then im sure u will find the right man and u can marry him, gays have equal rights 2 any1 else so mayb u could consider adoption.

its not the perfect fairytale ending but its still something.

i hope this helps, good luck xx

Snipe / Jan 23 2010 23.29

For the children part, you could consider adopting a child when your older, but this could put alot of pressure on the child.

It's not any good to pretend your someone your not. It would be very awkward for someone to go up to you and say "Are you gay" from out of the blue. Like lulu said, wait until you get out of school. It may be a better hope. You could join a community or talk to a parent about this. Some friends can be very heartbreaking if their homophobic, so only talk to someone who you trust, 101%.

Alex95 / Jan 24 2010 11.30

Ah yeah I know exactly how you feel, I'm bi as well but I don't like the fact that I might never have a wife and especially kids. I'm in the same place you are - I would just say to not overeact about it. Sorry I don't have any other advice lol.

:)