jd999999999999 / Dec 06 2009 1.47

this is kind of a fact if you like guys and girls then you are bi if you in turn change your sexualty at some point then it probley you are gay (jugeing from you post) how ever you might just like guys becuse you what to experowment thats why you might be bi curious

Vrulzalot / Dec 09 2009 21.14

hey my name V

im lesbian and i know how u feel !

from V

ps: i cant tell my mum "!!!!!!

AppleCrumble / Dec 13 2009 18.10

Heya x

Well you're probably not a lesbian because you like guys.. But this may just be a phase, you may turn out to be straight.. I'm pretty sure I'm straight, so I'm not really sure, but a while back i used to notic 'hot' girls aswell.. I don't think there's anything wrong with that, probs just bi curious if you do that. But as you're 13 with puberty and hormones etc etc. Yeah, it may just be a phase x It's good you're not in a rush to lable yourself x

Good luck in the future, just be happy with who you are x

Confused1996 / Jan 01 2010 16.18

hey thanks for the advice everyone and to V

I cant tell my mum cos a) im not absolutely certain and b) one day i was like "someone likes me and so does ashley" and my mum heard and she went "is ashley a girl?" and i went "no. he's a guy" and she went "oh good, cos i really dont wanna have that conversation about you liking girls" she then screamed and went "thats kinda how the convo would go" and so you see. i cant tell her!!! ARGH!! thanks though V xox

 

to applecrumble, i spose it might just be hormones and that but... im just gonna like who i like and i think that should be good enough (: thanks xox

 

and to jd999999999999 i dont think ima lesbien since i still have feeling for guys so i'll just think about it, thanks! xox

Ratty96 / Jan 24 2010 13.41

I think I'm sort of in the same position as you. I feel "sexually attracted" to girls as well as boys, and I have also found myself staring at some super sexy girls recently. But I would never consider actually having a long relationship with a girl, and I've never fancied a girl, but I have had a boyfriend who I really liked...

Aaagh! It's so confusing! I do think it's just a phase, I kinda hope it is anyway. I don't want to be gay. I have nothing wrong with bi-sexual peeps,  I just don't want to like girls. Anyway, with hormones and stuff it probably is a phase... maybe?

 

Ratty96 xxx