IfOnlyTheyKnew / Oct 09 2009 19.07

mayb b4 u go out with sum1 again u cud try 2 make frrends with dem first so u get to know dem better and understand their personality.

if any future boyf pushes u around again make sure dat dey understand dey DO NOT get away with treating any1 like dat.

if any future boyf's scare u leave dem strait away and dnt let ursekf get caught up

good luck x

bondrepair / Nov 15 2009 17.41

Hi there,

not sure if i am the best person to talk to you as im in a simillar situashion want to get control back not have to do things i dont want to but im rally scared as it happen all my life im am like yourself scared toget in a retionship as i cant copee wih certian things so i swich myself of when people doing things dont want to happen learn to do it at very small age and still doing.i get in situatshoins that i cant cope with thats when i swich of dont feel aything but now im really scared i dont want to go on living the way i am i been hurt but now noone cant hurt me anymor as there not much they can do to hurt me anymore.

your really behave and you should be so proud of yourself  that you were able to get away form that situation. try take things slow get to no them and trust them before you form a reationship.

sorry not sure this helps not very good at things like this

take carexx