My boyfriend is alot older..

Luciie-Luu / Nov 18 2009 19.01
He is nine years older than me.

I have been with him for three months, and he barely wants to see me. Im constantly on edge wondering if me and him are okay. And wondering what he is thinking. I tried speaking to him but he just doesnt seem to care or listen. When im with him im the happiest i could ever be, but when i dont see or hear from him for a few days im worried and cant sleep. I hate looking like the eager one always texting him and when i dont text him he isnt bothered atall. Help me?

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Noober / Nov 18 2009 19.01
i think personally and i know this will be hard to hear but i think you should do 1 of 2 things ... you can either ignore him for a while and let him come to you (but there is the chance that he just doesnt come to you at all.. but you have to be willing to take that risk)

or you can just end it because two people need to work together to let a relationship work and if he isnt that bothered then he just isnt worth it. no one deserves to feel the way you say you feel... i went througha phase like that with a previous boyfriend (older aswell) and in the end i just realised that he wasnt worth the worry or any of it. because he should be the one making you feel amazing and if he doesnt then he isnt worth the time of day.

but you have to come to realise that yourself....

hope it helps...xxxx

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