Confused and a bit unhappy...

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    Alba / Dec 06 2009 23.29

     Last week I met up with a guy friend i've not seen for a while, he was being flirty, and I like him quite a lot, so I kissed him, he kissed back, it was all ok so we decided to get  together

    (He is my second boyfriend) 

    We agreed to meet up a week later, but talked a lot on the phone.

    today I went to his house, we went to his room and kissed/made out. we agreed he could give me a "Love Bite" on my stomach, his hand kept moving up my body (To my bra) I was moving his hand down, but we were kissing and one thing led to another and he was Cupping me (Under my shirt) I know it was too soon.. but it felt good. we talked for a while (maybe 2-3 hours) and I was telling him that 'I liked that, but I don't want to do that a again for a while' and he was saying that he's ok with that.

    We were kissing a bit later and I'm not going in to details but at one point he said 'I can help you with that' with his hand moving Very low. after what I now feel was to long, I told him I want to stop, Witch we did, I tell him this is going to fast, and he says his ok with going slow.

    So I now feel really bad and confused, I like him, but I crossed 2 Lines and wish i hadn't.

    oh and right now I feel a bit Sick thinking about what we did.

    I'm not sure what to do, I would really like to talk to someone who knows what i'm feeling or knows what i should do.

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    RonnieRoo / Dec 05 2009 11.33

    The exact same thing happened to me , except I didn't tell him to stop.

    I felt really bad about it , and I told him to slow down a few days later and he agreed with me.

    I regret letting my boyfriend do it as well. If your boyfriend's a decent guy , he'll understand if you tell him you really wanna slow down.

    If it happens again , or you can tell its about to happen , just move away or stop kissing him.

    You need to get it in his head that you don't want it , its too soon.

    Worked for me.

    Sorry if its confusing... :S

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    Alba / Dec 06 2009 23.29

     

     

    RonnieRoo, your advice really helped .

    Thank you (a lot!)

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