Periods and bras.... (worries)

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    NoHopeNow / Dec 12 2009 15.43

     Well I'm 11 and my mum has bought me 2 bras but she hasn't said anything about wearing them yet and at school I'm the only girl in my form who doesn't wear one so I sneak it on when it's a PE day

    also I don't know what I would say to my mum when I start my periods as I've never talked to her about it before

    Am I normal? Or weird?

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    MLISAM / Nov 17 2009 18.44

    You Dont Need To Worry About These Things, i Didnt Start Wearing Bra's Until I Was almost 12,  And When i Started my Period I Just Asked My mum If she Could Buy Some extra Pads, it Seems embarrising, but Really Every women gets Periods, And Its Nothing To Be Embarrased About, its A Natural thing, And If You dont Seem Embarrased Then Your Situation Wont be As Worrying.

    It is Extremely Normal To Worry About These Things. Most Girls Do. I Did !

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    mintchan / Nov 19 2009 21.57

    Hey,

    You're not weird thats perfectly normal. But I think you should wear a bra every day if you're going to wear one and if she bought them you're probabaly suposed to wear one.

    And at the time of telling your mum you're periods started it's a necescity at the time so you don't realy think about it!

    Hope this helped x

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    ILoveHimSoMuch / Nov 21 2009 21.31

    You're totally normal. I was the same when I was 11 and I thought I was weird cos all the other girls used t owear bras and all, but I was the first to start my periods (lol I bet you don't actually want to know any of this XD), but if you think you shouldn't talk to your mum bout your periods cos its too embarrassing, imagine how embarrassing it would be if you hadn't told her and you didn't know where the pads were! lol x you don't have anything to worry about...xxx

     

    Hope this helped xxx

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    User70786072 / Nov 26 2009 10.20

    Everyone has to experience puberty.

    Wearing a bra is NORMAL. I mean, if everyone didn't wear bras, you'll see lots of people walking around exposing their... you know whats. So seriously, start wearing one and don't stop (unless you're sleeping or whatever).

    And jeez! Periods are normal too. Just talk to your mom. My mom was practically jumping up and down with glee. I recommend pads to tampons.

    They aren't scary. They're normal.

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    Lollyy / Nov 26 2009 10.32

    Your Not Weird And When You Do Start Your Periods You Will Be Fine Its Not As Bad As People Make Out :)

     

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    lillykoolkat / Dec 04 2009 17.06

    im 9 and im worried about my period!

    in havent had one though its a scary thought!!!!!

    its a girl thing, dont worry!

    a girl in my class has her p. and wears big bras! she needs them!

    we all feel the same,   lolygirlmaff, xxx

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    lilpink3 / Dec 04 2009 18.06

    Hello,
    Dont worry i wear a bra because i need one, but if u dont need one you shouldnt have to wear one.
    and Periods, it nothing to worry about, and just sit down with your mum and talk to her and say about girl stuff becuase your mum will understand, and ir you think your wierd or not normal most of us are because every girl worrys about these things

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    RonnieRoo / Dec 04 2009 18.59

    Your normal.

    I was the same.

    Just try the bras , see how they feel.

    And don't worry about what to say to your mum when you start your periods. I just said to mine 'I think I've started my period'. Maybe you could ask your mum about bras or something about being a girl , just to break the ice.

    Good luck!

    :)

    Ronnie x

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    Jen301 / Dec 04 2009 21.20

    dont worry about it ;)

    If your mum bought the bras for you, she probably assumes you are wearing them! If she didnt want you to she wouldnt have got them for you.. Its obviously up to you but I would wear them. I love my bras and buying loads of them it makes you feel more confident and stuffs

    About the period thing; not really as embarrassing as you would think. Chances are your mum probably doesn't know what to say either. When you start just tell her exactly that, thats what i did anyways lol

    Anyways, Good luckkkkk <3

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    megamusic007 / Dec 09 2009 11.17

    Don't worry! I'm 11 and have been wearing bras since I was 9 and I don't care. I haven't started my periods yet but every women has them. If your worried that your going to start your periods take some protection to school with you.

    Your not werid!

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