Ariaura / Dec 08 2009 18.07

okay,

i would be diplomatic. telling your mom or dad is embarrasing, but i think the best way to sort it out is wait till your legally allowed. tell your boyfriend this, and if he doesent understand then tell him as part of your relationship, he must understand your needs as well as his :)

Becky8924 / Dec 08 2009 23.28

Thanks but he split up with me like less thn a week after.. shows what he really wanted :S

Now im getting grief from him like him texting me called me a "skett".. thn saying "get prettier love"

confuzzled59 / Dec 09 2009 8.16

in a relationship there should always be respect for the other person. he didn't respect that you wanted to wait so i don't think hes the best thing for u. personally i would leave him and just try and tell ur parents i no its embarrassing but they would probs be very happy that you chose to wait and they will back you up. you could always just write down what happened and give it to them, that way its less embarrassing.

but  if he did that to you over something like that think what else he might do. hes obviously not right for you so get away from him.

hope this helped

emz xx

Becky8924 / Dec 09 2009 15.41

Yeah thats a good point thanks :D x

Oobers / Dec 18 2009 19.52

He sounds really horrid! You are better off without him! Don't worry, you haven't done anything wrong. You have a right to decide when you want to have sex.