yankhater / Nov 24 2009 14.05

my friend did the same just because he fought it would be cool.

yankhater / Nov 24 2009 14.49

i feel so sorry for you

LodgeBars / Nov 28 2009 20.35

 ok

blueberrymuffin / Nov 29 2009 20.45

hi

im in my first year at secondry school 2

Don't hv sex ok

i mean u can if u fidn someone REALLY REALLY special

rememeber there is only 1 first time and once u hav e done i tu can't take it back

I hope this helps

bluebery

neverforgottenx / Dec 02 2009 21.42

If your only in year 7, then you dont need to worry about it. you shouldnt feel you need to have sex just because your friends have. loads of my friends have but i haven't. its nice to be able to wait for the right guy :) and you'll know when you want too. honestly, dont worry about it. i bet your friend is lying about it, and in my opinion year 7 is far too young to lose your virginity.

hope i've helped a little :) x x x

leo1 / Dec 04 2009 15.54

You are not legal to have sex until you are 16 or over so why are you worrying?

your friends are probaly lying to you and they are trying to make themselves look big. do not feel that you have to follow you friends. be different and be safe. but on the other hand, if you do want to have sex then please use protection because if you get pregnant at your age then your life will be hard!

lillykoolkat / Dec 04 2009 17.11

im 9.

are u meant 2 have sex at 12!

help coz i dont want to!!!

i want to save it 4 somone who i really like!

please... HELP!!!

do we have 2 at the age of 12!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

RonnieRoo / Dec 04 2009 18.55

Ignore them. They say they have had sex before , but most of them are probably only saying it to look cool and to get popular.

It doesn't work.

It just makes you look trashy.

Its my third year in secondary school , and I havent had sex. I know loads of people who haven't. I know people in the year above who hasn't.

Just because someone says they have doesn't mean they actually have.

And the girl is probably just trying to make you jealous.

Don't let her get to you.

Do everything in your own time , don't rush into having sex.

Some of my mates haven't even had their first kiss yet , so don't worry about being left out. Everyone is different.

I've learnt it from personal experience - rushing into things is really not a good idea. Especially when its sex , cos there's so many risks. Pregnancy , STI.

Don't do anything just because everyone else is.

Do you want to be a sheep and follow the crowd?

And your young. Its illegal.

Just wait until you want to. Because you're feeling left out is really not a very good reason. Best to work out the simple things before being serious.

 

Hope this helped a bit :)

Ronnie x

Oobers / Dec 18 2009 20.29

Please don't feel like you have to have sex just because everyone else is. Nobody your age should be having sex at your age! It is really wrong! I'm 12 and I wouldn't even dream about having sex. Most of those girls are lying anyway! Don't worry about them. You just do what is best for you and respect yourself.

snow14 / Dec 19 2009 19.40

heyaa

I'm in my first year in secondary school too

I haven't even had a boyfriend 

Wait untill you really love that person

xxxxxxxxxx