Thatguy02 / Oct 15 2009 20.27
That's very brave of you to post this comment, well done :)
well firstly i would like to say I'm in 6th year (doing A levels in Northern Ireland) and i have not had sex yet. I don't plan to in the near future either.
Yes there are a lot of people in my school (aged 16/17) who have bragged about the amount of people they've had sex with. Those people are very insecure about who they are, and you will find that most are actually lying.
My friend, when we were in second year of high school (aged 14) claimed he had a girlfriend. He created a fake bebo account of her. This went on for two months, although he never admitted it, i knew it was a fake account and he did not have a girlfriend. To do this date he has not had a girlfriend (he is 17) and is very insecure about it people making fun of him because of it. But I keep telling him it's irrelevant; someone will come along at the right time.
The same applies for sex. It will happen when it happens, and most people i know regret having sex underage.
They said they wished until they were older, because after a while it has no meaning, wheras if you wait it's very special and enjoyable.
People will stop talking about it when they realise how pointless it is boasting about it. If you are still finding it hard to deal with, talk to a friend. Talking to a parent is good, sometimes it can feel a little awkward talking about sex at first, but people say parents know best- THEY REALLY DO.
hope i helped ya out, don't let people bother you too much. If they do, talk about it. Commenting here was a great first step! =]
