Kel2k9 / Dec 24 2009 21.15

I'm also 13 and have never kissed a boy or had a proper boyfriend.  I also feel really fat and ugly. My mates have boyfriends and I'm really jelous!

A while ago, I met someone and we didnt hang round for long but i really liked him! i found him on facebook and we talked but he had changed ALOT! he's asked me to do hings with him and we ended up having a big argument! he wasnt interested in me... he just wanted someone to do stuff with.

you just have to see what he wants. If hes not in love with you theres nothing you can do.

 

I understand how you feel but one day youll find someone. my sister didnt get a proper boyfriend or kiss anyone untill she was 15... wich i think is good as shes not sleeping around like most 15 year olds.

KimmyJ / Dec 28 2009 13.19

I'm 16, and I felt the way you do for a long time. I have just found the perfect guy and we have been going out a while now, I love him so much. All I'm trying to say is, I know exactly where your coming from, just hang in there. I thought something was seriously wrong with me, but my guy makes me feel so amazing. You'll find someone in the end :) xxx

ilovetwilight / Jan 02 2010 17.19

I'm 15, and I've never had a boyfriend either. I often get worried if theres something wrong with me, like if I'm too quiet or not pretty enough etc. Most of my friends have had boyfriends, which also makes me feel worried, but I try not to worry too much because everyone gets boyfriends at different times. Try not to worry about it too much

babyygrrl / Jan 08 2010 22.15

hi im 13 ive had boyfriends but there nowt special and its only a status tthing i havent had a lot either :)

and the thing is your totally cool to wait and your not ugly. One day someone will love you and if you get with a lot of boys having a lot of boyfriends people will call you a player anyway even if you dont do anything I know I get called a player because I confided in a friend who I fort i could trust that me and my boyfriend are gonna start trying for a baby because she says im too young grr x

The-Cadbury-Kid / Jan 11 2010 0.24

Sweetie, don't get yourself so upset. I am 17, and have had one boyfriend. This was ONLY because he was the first one to ask me out and I got over excited. We didn't go out for very long. It just didn't work.
It got me down for a while that no one was asking me out. My friends all ahd boyfriends and I was increasingly hearing that people were sleeping together and I got soooooo jealous. Then one day I had a revelation, a thought.

They are not good enough for me. They are missing out on all the fun we could have.

You are a beautiful person, no matter what anyone says. You have met only a small amount of boys at school, there are so many more people in England or across the world. You will know when the perfect boy comes along. Not kissing a boy is not the end of the world, it'll happen in it's own good time. I've never kissed a boy, so what? There is so much time left for that!! Enjoy what you have, have fun with your friends and it will happen eventually, DON'T WORRY!

The Cadbry Kid xxx