crying-angel130 / Jul 25 2009 7.10

 heyya hunni,

listen... you shouldn't have sex until you're sure you are ready. Sit down and talk to your boyfriend, tell him exactly how you feel. I know it seems hard, but talking through how you feel will really help both of you. But, if you decide you do want to have sex with him- for the right reasons, then it is scary. And it probally will hurt... It is all part of being in a relationship. Only when you are ready though.

Crying-angel x 

sad-shazziee / Sep 13 2009 20.43

im going out wiht this boy and i love him like crazy. Theres only one problem though, he wants to have sex , adn i mean so do i but im scared that i'll end up getting a disese or end up pregnant, i wanna have a lide B4 i even start thinking about kidz. if i used protection and stuff will i be okay having sex with him. Cause i love him so much 'n' stuff and he wants it and so do i >>>> HELP PLZ PEEPS!!! :S

Haylie / Oct 08 2009 19.33

I'm the same here .. i think it's best if you just say how you feel to your boyfriend, if he cares then he will respect how you feel .Im sure it'll be okai . and make sure you really want to before going all the way. xx

Haylie / Oct 08 2009 19.38

I've been with my boyfriend about 4 months now, we have been friends for ages and know each other really well, we trust eachother. He's mentioned sex a couple of times, but im not so sure about it ... i mean i want to but should i ?? i know it's only been 4 months but i love him so much .. any advice ? ? ? x

lovebug / Oct 23 2009 14.16

Hiyaah :) el i had kinda the same situation a few months ago, i was with a guy 4 5 months and we had been friends for ages before we went out. he was one of the nicest lads in the world and i no this sounds silly but i just wanted to make him happy.

he mentioned sex and it actually took me a few weeks to even give him an answer. i was TERRIFIED

but i think u should go from what YOU think. not from what im saying. because after i did it, he broke up with me. we stil talk but he nly talks wen he's after something. you can never be too careful. so when you make up your mind make sure you'v thought it thru.

hope ive helped

Lovebug

xXx

pinkbubblez / Oct 24 2009 7.52

babes dont have sex with him! hes out to use you,they all are

this will seem cliched but if he respected you he would wait until you want to do it

butterz / Nov 01 2009 3.07

am a lad and if he loves you like ilove my gf (gettin married) all he  want to do to you is giv plessure coz us lads think  givin you lases out there plessure and tryin to make you feel spechial. just explain to him and say by having sex were building are trush nothin to do with the plessure

trouble918 / Nov 02 2009 15.44

then give it ago u might like it

 

elly912 / Nov 02 2009 16.43

hi im whit mt bf and loves me.And he wants sex whit me and i dont PLZ HALP ME

LizzyLoo / Nov 02 2009 17.46

If your worried, then id suggest use a condom and if ur worried think why exactly , is it just the whole comcept that a condom breaks or something? u can just tell him if theres a problem dont forget if he really likes u he'll do what u want.