boodles / Jan 10 2010 1.18

hey. i am going through the exact same thing with a guy i know, but what i think is that maybe instead of keep trying to get with her be her friend. surely you want her in your life. it will be awkward at first but when you get closer as mates she will see the awsome guy you probally are and maybe rethink (no promise). i hope everything works out for you.

becky..x

unluckyem / Jan 12 2010 22.48

I am also 15, and know how u feel, I was like that with a really good friend of mine, but then he told me that he didnt feel the same, so instead of ruining the friendship, like i did with this other lad i liked and went out with, i just accepted it, got over him and now me and him are like sister and brother, and we are close, which is a good thing, because i think we are closer than we could have ever been if we had started going out with each other. Getting together just ruins a great friendship, and you regret it once u split up.

Hope this helps :) x

Connor0212 / Jan 13 2010 15.19

Hi. I'm 16 and in exactly the same situation as you. I know exactly how you feel. The best advice I got was just to stay the best friends you can with her.

It may just be that she doesn't want a relationship right now, so if you stay good friends, you never know - she may change her mind. And if not then you can still enjoy her company, which should make you feel happier.

meganbabi101-babe / Jan 16 2010 12.40

thats like me accept im 10 and a girl he doesnt understand i luv him i told him now ppl are saying he loves me and now im going out with him just wate