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Need help with relationship before it crumbles

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    pitty / Jan 19 2010 15.34

     Hi im 18 dno if im supposed to use this site or another but a just want to ask for some help im not the kinda guy to ask anyone for anything so you must see how desperate i am...! 

    my girlfriend who i love more than anything is pregnant... and her mum is completley controlling over everything saying when i can and cant see her i see her one day on two off.... and she never stays at my house any more 1 night a week if im lucky and i always have to be at hers listening to her mum shouting her head off and being nasty to everything that moves... i dont know what to do it feels like since she got pregnant her mum is even more determined to push me out... she is also saying that my girlfriend HAS to go colledge for another year while i get a job and pay for it while SHE brings my child up I dont want that if i have a job where i can afford to get my own place... i have confronted my girlfriend about this she just says i am stressing her out too much or nothing can be dont like her mum is rambo or something......... i cant cope with this over and over again what should i do? stay with her and have her mum control when i do and dont see my own child... or leave???

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    BrokenAngel10 / Jan 19 2010 11.19

    Heyahh Well I Sorta Know The Situation Yuur In And How Yuu Feel..My Boyfriend Has A Baby With A Previous Partner..&&..She Dont Let Him See Him..&&..He Feels Upset Bout IT..But Not Tuu Be Rude Sweetpea..But It Aint Got Nothing Tuu Do With Yuur Girfriends Mum..Tell Her Straight  Its Yuur Baby..&&..Yuu Wanna Be Around To Help Raise It..Tell Her Yuu Dont Wanna Be One Of Those Guys That Aint There To Help With The Baby..Its Yuur Son/Daughter..&&..Yuu Have The Right To Raise It..Talk Tuu Yuur Gf Alone While No1 Is Around..Get A Job..Get Yuurself A Flat Or Something So Yuu Can Move In With Yuur Gf..I Hope It All Goes Well Sweetpea

    Let Me Kno If It Boy Or Girl..=]

    Much Love BrokenAngel..Xo

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    LittleMe / Jan 19 2010 15.34

    Hey im sorry that your having trouble

    I deffo wouldn't leave that would prob make more trouble!
    Maybe her mum is just scared or worried about her daughter it is her little girl.
    Congratz on the little one i hope everything goes okay :) But im sorry to say but it isn't true that you have a right to raise the little one becasue i learnt it in sociology that unless you are married the father has no right over the child and the mother can do what they want, horrible but true :( Im so sorry

    I suggest you have a talk with your girlfriend next time you have alone time, don't get mad or angry just say what you have told us and explain how much you care and love her and the baby.
    Also try and stay positive and be nie towards the mother of your girlfriend

    Good luck i hope it all goes well for you
    Hope i have helped
    x

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