emilie14 / Jan 20 2010 18.03
You might feel like hes the best person to have sex with because hes a friend and all that.. but i half agree with pitty. I can empathise with how you feel, in the fact that you are 16 and you don't want all the peer pressure that will come from being a virgin, but you have to think of yourself in this situation. Yeah, fair enough hes a friend and he may know you better than a percentage of other boys that and might attract your attention.. but i don't think its wise to go down that route. If you're not 100% certain that you're ready then dont do it.. and by the sounds of it, you don't sound too sure. So, even if you don't lose your virginity until you are 20, atleast then maybe your head will be a little bit clearer.. and plus its his 4th time, he knows what its like, he could easily pressure you or put you down in any way for things you may do wrong. Another thing, you kind of like him abit? - Thats not a valid reason to sleep with him.
I don't expect you to listen to me, but i'm just talking from experience, so if you do end up sleeping with him, make sure protection is worn and you are fully comfortable and 100% ready.
Good luck :)
