emoenough / Jan 14 2010 16.23

I'm 12 turning 13 too :)

I've never had a boyfriend either, and i'd rather be like us than my mate megan. she had about 11 "boyfriends" in one week, now everyone thinks she's Easy.

just think half the population is male, so theres always someone out there for you. you've just gotta look.

btw i have a few spots and braces. if you think your unattractive then your probably not, theres worse out there. no offence to anyone

lovee and kisses.. emily x

Rocky151 / Jan 14 2010 18.00

Don't worry about it!

I know alot of people say this- But some boys may actually think you're very pretty and want to ask you out, but not say it because they are embarrased to in front of their friends. Boys at this age tend to copy their friends alot to make them feel part of the 'In-crowd'.

And remember nobody is ugly! Every girl you're age gets spots, it's natural, so if you're friends don't have them yet then they will soon!Just make sure you wash your face daily with a gentle cleanser and I'm sure they will go in time. Anyone who says that you're ugly because of glasses is very silly and childlike because it doesn't affect who you are as a person!

Just keep being the great person you are and believe in yourself and you will have a boyfriend that loves you for who you are!

Hope this helped

Peace :)

kes2008 / Jan 15 2010 17.07

I thought in the same way that you do when I was your age, a lot of my friends had boyfiends and i didnt and i thought there must be something wrong with me.

I had my first boyfriend when i was 15, and am 16 now and have been together with the same guy for half a year and i am so happy with him.

Trust me, there is someone out there for everyone, you just have to be patient :)

Love Kes xxxx

mel1020 / Jan 15 2010 23.49

im 15 in 5 months and have never had a boyfriend. and when you say 'everyone thinks im ugly' that is probally not true at all. Everybody has trouble liking their appearance.

so dont worry that you've never had a boyfriend, the right one is out there somewhere....just waiting for you...trust me.

Ariaura / Jan 16 2010 13.37

13 and never had a boyfriend. im glad. I dont want to have a boyfriend unless i really love them and they feel the same way about me. dont worry, be proud that your not gong through so much heartbreas ;)

unhappy1993 / Jan 16 2010 19.27

Message for all of you on this message ! 

Do not worry if you have not had a bf therre is plenty of time for boys you all still very young and its not like your OLD people to tell you the truth no affence to old people though! 

The time will come when its right for you all.

There is nothing wrong with having braces or having a few spots loads of people get them this does NOT mean you are ugly you need to learn to like yourself treat yourelf to things you like . Dont let anyone put you down belive in yourself! 

If your been called names then i would suggest you tell an teacher or adult who can put a stop to this as its bullying! 

Take Care all of you

Here if u want to talk anytime :) 

xxx

rew / Jan 18 2010 16.10

me neither. im 13. i fancy a guy but i think ill just wait. ull meet some one wen the tin is rite

xxxxx

Connor0212 / Jan 18 2010 23.04

Hi

Theres a girl that I really like and she has never had a boyfriend before and I just haven't built up the courage to tell her how I feel yet.

Just because you've never had a boyfriend, doens't mean there aren't boys that like you. Its just that some boys take time to ask girls.

If there is a boy you like, perhaps you should ask him out.

shygirl93 / Jan 22 2010 17.25

heey

dw about it, you'll get one eventually,

and your only 12 going on 13, im 16 and still havnt had a proper boyfriend. you just gotta wait till you find someone who likes and respects you :)

smileyface123 / Jan 22 2010 19.34

hey 

im 9 but one of my aunties is 19 soon to be 20 and shes never had a boyfriend.she wears glasses 2 and has a few spots but she just gets on with it

xxx