Raayx / Jan 24 2010 20.04

I get what you mean with this. Well, if i were you, g with the 2nd option. if she was your best mate, she would be happy for you. But, if you really like the guy you're with, then don't let what others think get in the way. If he's a nice guy, then why not? I've liked two guys before, and this is what i did;

I looked at them both, and decided what qualities i preferd. Make a list of things you like in a guy, and then see which guy checks most of the boxes, if you get what i mean? When i did it, it helped a lot, and it got me a new boyfriend. the relationship only lasted a month, but if i went with the other option then i wouldn't of been with anyone at all.

 

Good luck x

IfOnlyTheyKnew / Jan 25 2010 20.41

i dnt reely no what advice to give you..but.. heres a quote :

a friend wil stab you in  the back, a boyfriend wil stab you in the heart and twist the blade but a bestfreind will only poke you with straws

its up to you. whos more important to you? your friend or mr hot new guy?

be careful u dnt want to hurt ur current boyfriend or ur friend

if shes a true friend shel b happy 4 you but do you reely no the new boy well enuf to risk hurting two people over?