ajbaby / Jan 26 2010 15.35
he might love you, or he might just like you as a mate, i've been in this position twice before, and tbh it does really suck.
the first time was with a lad i'd been mates with for a year and we were really close, i told him that i loved him and he was just likve 'ok right' and i felt really stupid, the next day he got with my best friend, i felt worse, but after about a week we got close again, back to normal, almost i still loved him, and we were talking on msn and he told me that my mate broke up with him, and i asked what was up because even though i loved him, i did love him enough to want him to be happy, and he told me everything, my best mate had known i liked him when she got with him, but thought nothing of it and i didn;t want to lose her over him. when he told me why my mate broke up with him i was shocked, she had broke up with him because she asked him to stop being as close with me because she was getting jealous, and he said no, she then asked him straight up if he fancied me and he just said yeah. after hetold me all that he asked if i still loved him and i said yeah, we got together and we were really happy but broke up a few months later over a stupid argument, that i reall regret, it took me a few weeks to get over him but i did it.
the second time, it was a close lad mate i i just told him how i felt again, (i am less than shy), but he told me he didn't felll the same way, and that he just wanted us to be good mates, and i was okay with that, and we;re stil mates, and i eventually got over him.
i think you should take a risk and tell him how you feel, if he likes you back then that's great, if not then you should try and see if you can stay friends, mybe he justneeds you tell him how you feel for him to realise he might have the same feelings for you!
good luck babess xx