Babee-x / Dec 06 2009 20.27

Try to see it fromt heir point of view, i mean what would you do if you found out your 14 year old daughter was having sex?

having sex at 14 is quite young, just be careful and know what you're getting yourself into.

If they do eventually say that you can't see him. Don't run away! Plzz.You're only 14 and you need your family right now. You might luv him, but respect your parents decision. they'll let you see him again eventually!
Gd Luck x

music-4-life / Dec 07 2009 0.00

I was going to make a new post, but it's so similar to mazza's I may as well put it here.

My best friend has been having sex with her boyfriend and her parent's didn't know until today. She was on the pill, which her parent's also didn't know. Her mum walked into the room when she had no trousers on. Obviously her mum guessed what had happened. She had to tell almost everything about what she had done. She is 16, but her parents are REALLY strict about this kind of thing. I didn't really want her to be having sex in the first place, but I couldn't really make that decision for her. I don't know how to support her. Her parent's haven't made any decisions about if she can still see him or not. All my thoughts are mixed up. Please help me.

777 / Dec 12 2009 17.45

hi there im 12 and im not a virgin but i love my bf sooooo much and i never want to stop meeting him but my mam neerly found out and im scared tht if i dont have sex he wont love me anymore xxxxx

Oobers / Dec 18 2009 19.49

You are a bit young to be having sex. You need to be careful with what you are doing. Don't run away, it is not worth it. I'm sure he is a very nice boy but make sure he actually cares about you before you start commiting your whole life to him.

Gd luck xx

angee / Dec 20 2009 10.04

at end of day i was 13 when i lost my virginity and i told my mum at 14 nd like she want bothered she like aslonng as ur wearing protection and everything else.thats how mums are pose be there for there daughthers and that i am now 16 im legal and i can do stuff without concerning my mum and dad buh just dont run away cause u need fam more then ur bf ?

xx

CulyTwirl / Jan 03 2010 23.53

Hi

Listen I Know You Love your boyfriend but your very young and im sure your rents were horrified when they found out i just think maybe stop for a while also hes not gonna stop loving you if you to stop :)

shoelacey / Jan 23 2010 22.07

777 At 12, I think that is defiently too young! Pleaase don't think he wont love you anymore...You shouldn't be having sex right now you should be worrying about which way to put your head too kiss.

And the main problem, It's okay just be careful :) Talk to your parents about it properly :) xx

pancakes2000 / Jan 24 2010 12.32

 i just want u to know that wat your doing is agast the law  you can have sex at 16 that you can do i was just letting you know

unhappy1993 / Jan 24 2010 21.20

Hello .

DO NOT RUN AWAY! You are putting yourself into danger and you are going to get into more trouble by your parents and u will only get brought back by the police ! Also if your bf is over the age of 16 and your mum tells the police you ran away because you and him where having sex you bf will get into serious trouble because your under the age your only 14 there is plenty of time but im sure this is going to be hard for you but you need to sit down and talk to your parents about you and your bf having sex and try to make some decisons , to your mum and dad you are still there baby and im sure they dont want u having sex just yet as you young still and you have got all of your life! 

Like you said you have an accident in your room and u needed the pill you need to be sure this will not happen again because next time you may not be lucky you need to be so careful you do not become pregnant or get sexual diseases!

Pleasee takee caree and listenn to what people are saying having sex at 14 is young ! 

Byeee

xxx

catx / Jan 25 2010 19.31

i totaly agree! =]