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    IfOnlyTheyKnew / Oct 08 2009 17.01

    before i start this u need to know that im not an emo.

    i cut myself a few times due to the fact my parents are braking up. i get scared when they fight because if i say anything they both get mad and stop talkin to me so i just hide in my room. i started 2 cut in the summer holidays and the scars were all gone when i got back 2 school but  i cut again three days ago.

    in geography the guy i sit next to grabed my arm so he could draw on it and pulled up the sleve. when he saw the scars he just droped my arm like it was somthing poisoness and gave me a really manky look. since then he stopped talking   to me and he trys to stop his friends from talking to me. im scared he will tell people and then every1 will brand me as an emo and stop talkin 2 me. wat shud i do? 

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    Spanna / Oct 06 2009 21.39

    Ok, well firstly, please remember to treat your cuts, without care they could get infected!

    It must be very hard for you if your parents are going through a divorce. I have never been in that situation but I can understand why it would be very hard.

    I use self harming as a way of coping with my difficulties and I don't think it's anything to be ashamed of, it's a coping mechanism.

    Have you talked to your parents about how there arguing is making you feel? If not, you could maybe think about it.....?

    Your friends should be supportive, they shouldn't be distancing themselves from you! Your friends should understand what you are going through. Even though you do self harm it doesn't mean you are 'branded' "emo". Maybe the guy in your Geography group is just worried, he probably has nothing against you at all, he just doesn't know what to say.

    Have you thought about speaking to a teacher at school, someone you can confide in?

    Please, take care. Let me know how you get on. xxx

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    myst / Oct 06 2009 22.30

    i mean i can feel for ,i am soo sorry this has happend.

    the same sort thing happended to me to day ,in english a guy notice my cuts and he shouted" why have you gotslits on your wrist" o everyone could hear .i felt soooooo ahamed but i sed to him he had no proof.

    i hope you and the boy become on speaking terms , i really hope he doesnt tell everyone, and they very best of luck for you in the future,

    xxmystgirlxx...x

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    IfOnlyTheyKnew / Oct 08 2009 17.01

    thnk u both 4 ur help, thers no point talkin 2 my parents dey dnt understnd, ur probably right about the guy in geography.

    myst i relly feel 4 u.

    my best frend is helping me a bit but is threatening to wrap me in bubble wrap permenantly .

    both of u take care x 

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