Emilyxxx / Jan 06 2010 16.53

 to be honest with you you really cant prove it to her till u do stop drinking in school, if she means that much to you then isnt it worth it?

SomethingCrazy / Jan 06 2010 17.23

Will you truly be happy in your friendship if you have lied to your friend? You sound a little panicked if I am honest, and I am not entirely certain if you do in fact want her to know but you don't at the same time. That is quite a difficult place to be in.

Won't it be better for you if you don't lie to her? Maybe explain to her why you don't want her to tell the teachers, I think you have to be honest with her. That will build up the trust. She will hopefully understand why it is you do what you do, or respect that maybe you aren't ready to say.

If it is getting into a problem and you are drinking in school, so it sounds like it could be, then you need to get help. Sometimes it isn't what you want, and believe me when I empathize with that, but it is for your own good. You can't keep running for ever. Drinking doesn't do your liver any good.

x

jodi0901 / Jan 06 2010 17.36

i cant tell her why i do it if i tell her why i do it it will mean she will know and that will mean that other people will find out and i dont want the other people to find out i cant let other people find out why i do it i just dont want her to tell and i know when the scool isnt shut she will i dont think i can tell her why i like her as a friend but why cant she not tell

jodi0901 / Jan 07 2010 20.22

well looks like the council is opening scool tomoro im not looking forward to it i know she is going to tell i feel like i want to bunk off and stay at home i can because mum leaves for work before me so i could stay at home