unhappy1993 / Jan 22 2010 16.42

Heyy i think you and your feinds needs to talk to somone such as a parent ? or even gp who can put you in touch will coucelling service to help and support you instead of self harming  you and your freind could do coucelling together and support eachother . But plz try and talk to somone ! If you get really bad you will need to be in hospital im sure your mum and freinds would like to know how you feel then both of you coping alone ! 

Have you tryed the elastic band ? and drawing red pen on your wrist or arm where u cut ? or drawing your feelings

Try these they might help you and your freind ! 

Take Caree

xxx

han-han / Jan 22 2010 18.55

i do councelling, i self harm quite bad , i have tried techniques that have all failed for me.

My friend is gettin reffered 2 my councellin service  , she has only just started self harming.Im scared for her and i blame myself for what she is doing to herself.

I hate my life its self n no one would be bothered if i was dead

unhappy1993 / Jan 22 2010 20.50

Hello i am sorry to hear your feeling ver low in youself im sure people would care if you where dead you only feel like this because how your feeling in yourself . You do not have to blame yourself for your freinds selfharming it was was choice and you didnt make her do it its good that you both are doing coucelling which is really brave of you i can understand ur worried about your freind but she may feel the same way as you do about you by that i mean worrying ! 

Can you talk to a parent or teacher who might be able to help and acess you more help and support ??

Are you seeing proper mental health proffesinoals such as CAMHS ?

Have you been back to your gp to tell him or her how bad things are getting for you .

Write back if u want to talk moree

Ps: On here we all care for you and we loveyou and want to give you much advice and support as possible to pull you through this terrible time and everyone would defoo care if you where dead! 

Take Caree we will talk soon

xxx

han-han / Jan 23 2010 11.07

Thanx 4 ur support x

I am seeing a proper health proffesional n my friend is startin soon.

I just need 2 really 2 talk 2 my councellor person bout this.

I know that it isnt my fault at heart but im tellin myself it is and i think sum of it is guilt she has started n that she has to go thru this now. Im really scared for her xx luv her so much n i just gotta stay strong 4 her n help her no matter how difficult

unhappy1993 / Jan 23 2010 12.27

Your welcome babe ! 

Its good you are seeing a proffesinoal they will be able to help and support you loads and make you feel better so you dont have to self harm it is going to take time babe but you will get there so will your freind.

Okay babe i do understand how your feeling inside about your freind because you love her alot but if you let all these worrys out like you said you will be able to feel less worried and yeah babes you can support eachother she probley feeling worried and scared for you and her self its good to have freinds what care and love you so much .

Writee backk if u wantt too

Take Caree

xxx

han-han / Jan 23 2010 13.25

bbe just wanted to make sure you know sumthin,,, i have been like this for nearly 6 months now and i have been goin councellin 4 bout 4 months now so i am gettin the help it is my friend who is only ust gettin reffered as she only started to tell people begginin of this week.

xx dnt mean to sound awful

unhappy1993 / Jan 23 2010 14.23

Okay babe nope it didnt sounds awful ! its fine babes i just whish there is something i could to help you more and your freind (Y) . Your freind has been really brave by telling people its good she has told people like you which is a good thing babes  .

Takee Careee Babess Good luck to you both ! 

xxxx

han-han / Jan 23 2010 18.49

thanx for your help to be honest i wish there was more i could do for her aswell. im glad she has gone and told people as soon as she has.

im really proub of her x

thanx again

unhappy1993 / Jan 23 2010 20.14

Heyyyaa babes your welcome :D 

Yea you are such an great freind and your really supportive and caring ! 

Its good to know that you are proud of your freind

Byeeee

xxx