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Stressing out & being ignored

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    MisAwesome / Jan 13 2010 20.15

    Hii

    I'm in yr 10 and finding my life very difficult and stressy at the moment. My mum and dad split up when I was 5 and now my mum and step-dad have split up.

    I'm struggling to concentrate in lessons but no one will do anything to help me. I get very stressed quickly and I'm short-tempered. I don't know why, but recently everything is getting on top of me and its mostly to do with school.

    My friends are constantly falling out and 9 times out of 10 I feel alone. I have had 4 different counselling sessions since year 8 when the new secondary school was built and I maybe  having my fifth lot soon.

    I have spoken to my mate in Post 16 about my life and he has been a great help but I was wondering if there was anyone else suffering similar problems to me who could give me some help and advice to get my life back on track.

    I was even referred to a local doctor as the school wanted to find out if i could be suffering depression as I told my mate that I wished my life would just end and that I would do whatever it takes to end my life! Depression was ruled out but I still wish everything would go away and my life could be over!!

    Any advice would be much appreciated thanks

    xx :|

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    Becky8924 / Dec 09 2009 16.35

    Hey,

    My mum and dad split up when i was about 8 and my mums just split up with her boyfriend..

    But atm i feel alot better as i can spend more time with my mum and can talk to her more. I go out alot with my friends to get away from things and keep my mind off everything and it really works for me.. Life atm is much better just living with my mum and my sister so i hope things start to sort its self out for you :)

    Hope that sorta helped xx

     

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    Henizbakedbean / Dec 20 2009 19.20

     I feel the same as you part from my dad and mum are still together. 

    I am also in the same year and i have been stressed out to the point where i broke down in tears to my tutor, science that happened in November (about a month ago) we have been having regular meetings on how it is going. But recently i have been going back to my old ways and working too hard and have started self harming. My tutor has left and we have a new one in january i think he knows about my stress problems.

    maybe you should speak to your tutor or favorite teacher (BUT MAKE SURE IT IS SOMEONE YOU TRUST) as speaking to mine has helped a lot, as she has emailed all my teachers about it and they don't treat you anything different to what they would normally. 

    If you still are being ignored try speaking to your friends or even your mum if you can.

    hope this helps, and have a really good christmas !! 

     

    xxxx

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    ilovetwilight / Jan 02 2010 16.51

    Hi

    I'm in yr 10 as well, and I've been having loads of problems too. My friends never really understand what I mean what I try to explain how I feel, and neither does my mum. I keep a diary, and when I get really upset by something, I write it all down, and it usually makes me feel a bit better. Maybe that might help?

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    MisFantastic / Jan 13 2010 20.15

    Hii,

    Thanks guys this helps me feel like im not alone anymore!

    Things started getting better for me and my life started to get stress free,

    I still have problems regarding school and Im still being bullied (that wasnt mentioned before, i know) but I still talk to my mate in Post 16 (sixth form) who is still helping in a great way!

    I was right about gettin more councellin and now it seems like this time round I mite get the support I need. I do find it extremely difficult talkin to most of my m8s but there are a few who help to the best of their ability! :)

    Thank you very much for the christmas wish, it was quite good so I managed to take my mind off things and now just to see what happens.

    Thanking you all again :) x

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