I cant deal with it anymore..

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Tikki / Jan 14 2010 16.25
Okaay I dont really know how to say what my problem so sorry if it doesnt make sense :/

At my school I get along with people but I've never had a best friend, when I think I have one they either suddenly go off of me, or I get this thing where I be around one person for too long I go off of them so I have to keep moving around friends which personally I dont think this is normal :S, is anything wrong with me or is it just me? And because of this problem I dont get invited anywhere and I'm left out all the time which I hate, my mum says that my friends arent nice to me and that I should make new friends, but I havent made new friends in years and i dont think i cant do it anymore. My mum worries about me too much and i think its because of the whole i dont get invited anywhere thing because when my older sister was my age she was out most the time and I'm mostly at home. I sometimes think I should to talk to my mum about it but I cant it will be too scary and hard. What should i do?

Also there is soo much pressure and sometime I just want to run out of school. My older sister got like all A's in her GCSE's and I'm scared that I will dissapoint my family because I'm soo not clever. And also my little sister has just started my secondary school and she didnt fit in at first which made me nervous and my mum, and she started to get upset - basicly it didnt turn out good, but shes fine now. I kind of feel like I have to look after her and I dont think I can because I have a ton of problems myself and I dont know how to say to my mum, something like "wait im sorry but I cant keep my eye on her all the time, I wont do it well" or something like that :S

Am I just werid or is it normal

I cant deal with it anymore, it worries me so much :/

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BuzzBuzz / Nov 18 2009 18.22
my mum fusses too much, she won't let me have a mobile OR msn! and im like 13!

but anyway, i've had simular problems, especially when my friend has been ill and i had no-one to talk to, so what i did was sat on a bench and sang to myself quietly and someone in my year came over and started talking to me! i had never met her in my life and now she's my best friend!

So don't count yourself out before you've tried everything.

HANG IN THERE!

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beckiH / Dec 06 2009 22.22
just wanted to say that i totally understand the being under so much pressure!

i've never had so much work as i do now tbh. i hate school now, it's just so much work and coursework, and it just keeps on coming. and i've often thought "i can't deal with this anymore" it really sucks :( i don't know how im still doing school to be honest. well i do, coz i can't actually leave but that's besides the point. i've never had so much stress and pressure as now. and everyone keeps telling me that i'll do fine, and i shouldn't worry about it as i'll do ok, but i still worry so much about it. as i really feel like i'm being pushed to the limit at the moment.

anyways, feel better now that i've written this down, and just wanted to say that i totally sympathise with u, and any others that are going through the same stress.

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Sophie1289 / Jan 06 2010 10.44
Poor you!

I get scared trying to explain things which are upsetting to my mum and I don't like doing it but its for your own good! Try and do it on a day when you have a few things to say about something then you can deal with a few problems at a time. It works with me even though its scary at first but then you really get talking. So come on

Sophie1289

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holzrox / Jan 14 2010 16.25
omg i have egsactly the same problem and really im sorry but i dont no how 2 cope ether!!!!!

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