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Teacher Blackmail

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    unbreakable2 / Nov 02 2009 19.19

    Hey im not really sure if i should write this here but here goes..

    Im gay but i havent told anyone about being gay apart from my parents who say theres no way im gay cause its stupid being gay and no son of theirs is gay and now refuse to talk about it so i know they would never have told anyone and none of my friends know.. but i helping out at a school camp and it was just me and a male teacher in the lodge and i had just came out the shower and was standing in a towel and he just barged into my room and said he knew i was gay and told me he was too and before i knew what was happening he was all over me i pushed him away but he tried it again but i didnt let him but then he said to me if i wouldnt be with him then he would tell the whole school i was gay and tell them i came onto him.. i think he means he wants to have sex with me but im not completely sure he gave me till october to decide.. im so scared i dont know what to do about this.. i know if i told my parents they wouldnt believe me.. anyone got any advivce please?..

    Thanks x

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    Jen301 / Sep 24 2009 20.48

    You really really  need to tell somebody about that; whether you decide to tell a family member or a staff member at school. What he did to you was just so out of order and you don't have to do anything with him at all. More to the point you aren't allowed to.... since your still in school im gonna assume your under 16yrs still so it would be illegal.

    My advice would be to tell your head of year who will do something about it; you don't have to put up with your idiotic teacher really. Also, if he does it to you he could do it to somebody else so you need to put a stop to it NOW. r

    I hope this helps a bit, write back if you wantt anymore advice

    Jen
    xxxxxxxxxxx

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    unhappy1993 / Sep 27 2009 20.47

    Hey :) 

    You deffo need to tell some about this because your teacher is wrong and sick and this needs to come to a stop what your teacher is doing please please tell someone so they can bring this to a stop its wrong but always REMMEMBER its not your fault !!!!!

    Also you would help stop this just incase any one else in your school is gay and if you dont tell any one this is never going to stop and your teacher will do it to others .

    You will not be in trouble for any of this at all its going to be your teacher who gets in serious trouble because i think its classed as abuse .

    Talk to some such as the police , freinds mum , doctor , another staff member pricipal , childline adviser , grand parent .

    Dont let your teacher get away with it hes in the wrong and he needs help for defooo he shouldnt be aloud to teach students .

    Tell someone !!!!!!!!

    Take care

    xx

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    thecrow / Sep 29 2009 23.42

    That sounds awful. Even though your parents didn't like when you told them you are gay they might still be worth tellling about this teacher, but if not them do tell someone else.

    I also can't see how the teacher will 'tell everyone' you are gay so i think they are just threatening you. You don't want everyone knowing you are gay at this point and that is your choice. You could come out though and remove any hold this teacher has over you? Just another option. :)

    Do tell a head of year or another teacher who you get on with better you could even go to the head teacher about it. Maybe your form tutor? I'm gay and when I told everyone I was surprised how many people already knew. I was lucky though in that my Dad is very supportive of me. I hope you tell someone about this teacher noone has the right to pressure you like that.

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    LizzyLoo / Nov 02 2009 19.19

    Theres no shame in being Gay or a lez, theres nothing wrong with it just cause its not what EVERYBODY else does doesnt have to mean tht but i guess in some idiot eyes it does. dont be worried just tell someone tht teacher of urs wil be in trouble and if ppl tease u about being gay no worries, tell thm its better thn kissing girls with tons of daft lipgloss on cause then u look gay even if ur not lol

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