ashflo / Oct 08 2009 12.24

Well tbh it was up to you and your family you are not a murderer so dont think that if u have a baby now you may not be able to bring it up propa cause you have no money or a job and you have your school to finish when you finish school save some monwey and with the right boy then may be u could have a baby then if your boyfriend calls you that then mayb he's not good enough for you good luck and keep your head up muchlove ashflo xxx 

spotty / Oct 12 2009 12.13

well i think that it is wrong to kill a baby. if you get yourself into this mess you have to deal with the consequences. the baby has a heartbeat at only 7 weeks old.

smilehunny / Oct 15 2009 19.59

I dont think that it is my place to judge what is right or wrong, but I do think you have made the hardest decision that anyone would have to make, and it will probably one of the hardest decisions of your life. If you regret that decision now then there is nothing you can do to change it, you will have to move on and learn from the experience. If people call you a murderer, especially your boyfriend, then its their problem that they cant accept your decisions. If you had had the baby who knows what might have happened, people are always looking for some fault in others, and will call them names whatever the decision that person makes. One of my friends got pregnant recently (she is 15) and she is keeping the baby, if she aborted it then people would probably call her a murderer but because she kept it they now call her a slag and her boyfriend is not being that nice to her. Im not saying that this would have happened to you but you get the point.
One day you will have that baby that you wish for, but wait for the right moment and the right guy, you need to really have the financial support and stable relationship first. dont worry that time will come, some days might be bad but you will have to smile and think "yes, life might sometimes be rubbish, along with the people in it...but hey this is my life, not theirs"

hope this helped

xo

saira786sarah / Oct 21 2009 21.37

im 18 and i finshed my periods last on 21st sept still havent come on if i am pregnant can i abort it

confuzzled59 / Oct 22 2009 12.11

you can have an abortion up to 24 weeks but i think hard about it first. and do more research on the internet. its not an easy decision to make, not that i ever have had to make it but its best to think first coz it can make u feel terrible after.

hope this helps xx

-emo-fairy- / Dec 08 2009 20.16

hey, look no one on here should be judging you, and you are NOT a murderer.

i had an abortion nearly two years ago, and i know exactly how you feel and the looks you will get for it, but just dont beat yourself up because its the worst decision to have to make but if thats what you believed was right then forget everyone else you will always have another chance and be able to think it all through.

although mine was nearly two years ago i do still find it upsetting sometimes but over time you will learn not to forget but to live with the choices you have made.

hope this helps