Molski0404 / Sep 14 2009 20.48

hello,
congrats on having your baby girl. It sounds like you lov her very much! Well about the fighting with your and the fathers family, you are the mother and therefore they should respect what you do wather it involves your baby or them or you, maybe if you tell them your unhappy they will stop arguing. As for being more social, there are young mum groups you can go to and im sure they will be interessted in what you have to say bcaus most of them will be in the same situation, and also by joining one it will relieve some of your stress because the may be able to help look after your baby for a bit to give you some tim to take back control of your own life! Or if you dont think joining somewhere like that is you thing thn maybe try gettingintouch with old friends or maybe family friends who will listen to you and also let you have fun and a laugh, because its all very well being a mum and have all the resposabliity but you still need to have a good time every so often! sorry this is so long. Hope everything works out for you.  xx

Elodie / Sep 26 2009 21.06

 I'm 17 and in the same place right now. I've moved to live with my dad here in France and my mum is really angry at me for everything that's happened, she seems to have shut me out, but she still calls my dad and they row on the phone.

I have a baby girl too, I love her more than anything, everything is OK with her, it's everyone else. Her father came to visit and I just freaked. I didn't know how to be around him anymore and when I'm speak to my friends on the phone I barely say a word. 

What I really want is for someone that understands what's going on. I really wish that I could be with her father, but after the way I was I doubt he'll want to be part of this; I mean we're both kids, he shouldn't need to be caught up in this too. 

Blondey12 / Oct 12 2009 18.01

For bubblez : To "New mommy"          Happy to know your daughter is healthy.

If you feel depressed with people always being around you, tell them you need space. also ... your gp can give you anti-depressant tablets. they could help .Dont worry, you have not become anti-social ... people have just become  TOO social with you.                take care x

rhiannon10 / Jan 05 2010 21.21

i see then why don't you organise a little holiday and save up and just get away from it all i'm 12 at the mo and i'm finding it hard with life too it's all wierd espescialy now i just feel it's a big fight but i fight through just take some time to talk to someone sometimes it helps you sound so brave and tough just keep going it will be worth it in the end.say hi to your baby girl wish you all the best!

p.s. what's your babys name?