-emo-fairy- / Oct 05 2009 20.09

i didnt but i was over 16 

ashflo / Oct 08 2009 12.34

if i found i was pregnant at this age i would keep it i am only 15 but my mum had a baby at a young age i live with just my dad so he wouldnt like it but still if it happens then it does you can change it and it would be my fault anyway im the one that had sex in the 1st place. but having a baby will change your life and you do want to be in a stable relationship or your baby wont feel carred for but if you did get rid of it and regretted it you wouldnt feel right ever again i have never been put in this situation before but i have had sex with no protection with my bf but may b im lucky much love ashflo xxx

Blondey12 / Oct 12 2009 17.57

Well , I am not to sure hat the age is? Maybe you could look it up, or even ask childline.  If you want to keep it, then keep it. You will TOTALLY regret aborting it if you want it, and so will he.

I think its best to tell your parents, although you think they will go mental at first, they will be able to help you through it! Do not let them force you into a desicion, its up to you, as you could regret doing what they say aswell.

All i can say is, do what your heart tells you too, stand by your decisions. And [if you keep the baby] , i hope she/he will be healthy.               - hope this helped xx

        Take care      x                blondey12       xxxx

confuzzled59 / Oct 17 2009 21.07

you can hav an abortion up to 24 weeks but some babies survive from 22 weeks so i would hate to leave it til then. personally, i've decided to wait until i'm in a stable relationship before i even think of having a baby. i hav so much i want to do in life and for me its just something that can wait for me.

if you are considering an abortion i would deffo look up the facts nd stuff on the internet first because we studied it at skl and i dreaded our lessons coz even the thought made me feel so terrible. thats just my oppinion tho. my friend thinks she might be pregnant but it wasn't her choice, she was raped and i can see how it is destroying her inside. i'm only 14 so i can't say anything bout older ppl but personally i would say wait til after uni or u'v got a job and a husband coz babies r stressful and i don't think i would ever manage getting up every hour in the night to feed it.

its your choice tho. thats just my oppinion.

i'm here if u wanna no anything else :)

xxx

babygirl143 / Jan 03 2010 7.42

hey im 17 and if i found out i was prego i would have to keep it.. i dnt believe in abortions i could never do that like when every i think about it my mom was young when she had me if she aborted me id never be here today and i im adopted and it sucks cuz i would always want to see my mom and i only get to see her on my bday.. i would hate to see my baby once a year..

so id have to figure out the best ways to support my baby and give it the best life i could give it and live up to my mistakes..

mell9022 / Jan 05 2010 22.36

Hey im 19 i was 18 preg with my son and 19having him i dont regret having him at all i love him to bits and the thought of an abortion never crossed my mind untill now. My son is only 5months old and i have just found out im pregnant again. Ive been thinking about wha to do but i cant come to a decition. One min i think there is no way i could go through with an abortion then when my son plays up i just think how the hell am i going to cope with 2. My partner wants me to do what i feel is right but i know deep inside he doesnt want another child. I told my mum the same day i found out with my first but i just dont know who to tell her this time! I know she is just going to be so disapointed in me. I am still living with my parents aswell and there just isnt enough room here for me to stay but because there has been so much loss in the family the past 2 years with my brother and 2cousins comitting suicide my parents dont want me to leave home Helpp please someone x