crying-angel130 / May 20 2009 7.28

 heyy well personally i would keep it yeah. i am only 12, so it'd probaly be cared for by someone else or taken into care... but then at least id know somebody else would have a lovely baby...

how about u?

 

crying-angel x x

Kayleigh1 / Jun 06 2009 10.34

Cry.

Not because of ME but think of the baby, its all very well sayin i'll keep it cos' then it can get taken away. but i can tell you now as soon as you have ure baby and it first opens his/hers eyes to you, you will NOT want that baby taken away from you.

I'm 14 and i this was a couple of months ago now back in 2008, i fell pregnant with a baby girl. My own baby girl. Alisha i was going to call her because i don't believe in abourtion. The father was my boyfriend and he's 16, i told him and he started shaking, but then told me everything was going to be ok.

2 months into the pregnancy i went for a scan, they couldn't find her heart beat and they told me it was a miscarrage. I cried for days but then thought what if that was a sign that she wouldn't have had a good life? my bf was distraught he wanted her as much as i did but we realise now... we couldv'e had a 5 month old baby now. I wouldnt be in school he wouldnt be in work we dont have a lot of money to buy stuff for her. He told me that we will one day but we need to be kids at the moment and have a laugh before being forced with age to start getting serious in life.

Thats exactly what wer doing now, don't get me wrong i loved Alisha but it wasn't right . So i pray to god to keep her safe up with him and ill see her soon  

Thats wha i thnk :) 

Kay.

Lilblondie / Jul 22 2009 8.42

Hi x

Well i had my  3 yr old daughter Lacey when i was only twelve years old. I thought about an abortion but i dont like them either. My mum kicked me ou when i told her that i was pregnant. So i was like sort of homeless and pregnant. But my friend and her family decided 2 take me in. I havent seen my mum in 3 yrs

I think getting pregnant was really stupid of me.

I have now gone and got pregnant again and i have no idear whether to keep the baby or not.

I wouldnt recomend anyone to have a child unless they are in a stable relationship.

But it is ur descion though x

-emo-fairy- / Aug 05 2009 11.11

you have to think of what is best for you and what would life actually be like with a child?

or having to give your child away?

 

for me, when i got pregnant i knew i could never give a child away and i could not be a mother.

so i got an abortion. 

Nyuu / Aug 18 2009 1.28

Hi,

i found out i was pregnant a couple of weeks ago... i'm 14.. i'm not proud of what i did and i was totally against abortion until now, when i found out i did cry for hours because how am i suposed to have a normal teenage life now? ... but being pregnant changes your view on everything! i considered abortion alot and i sat down with the dad of the baby and had a REALLY long talk ... i told him that i was keeping it and of course he was upset but he agreed that he would help me (we aren't even dating) but i guess wha i' saying is ...

no one can say "I would keep it" or "i wouldn't keep it" until it happens to them ... i'm still not entirely comfortable with abortion but i wouldn't call it 'wrong' anymore everyone has there reasons.... they're just thinking of the baby.... x

Any Questions feel free to ask (might not answer some depending on the question asked....) thn yo for your time x nd yes i kind of feel ready for this adventure. x

Wabbit1995 / Sep 10 2009 19.24

well i have found out im pregnant, and i really want to keep it + my boyfriend doesnt, i dont want to break up with him over it because i love him to pieces, i want to tell my mum but i am really scared because i am only 14, and my dad would go mad to, i want to no how long you can be pregnant for, before you can have an abortion, i want to keep it so badly but scared to tell anyone, i need to no that question because incase i change my mind and cant get rid of it then my life will be ruined please help me what should i do ? :/

Wabbit1995 / Sep 10 2009 19.28

hello x

well i wish you luck with your daughter lacey, twelve is a young age but its your decision, and no one can change that, was you scared to tell you mum, and she had no right of kicking you out, and how could you bring up a baby without your mum that must be hard thats why i dont no whether to get rid of my baby or not, i dont wanna make the wrong decision, and having another one, well thats your decision to hun, you do what you think is right, but likey ou said make sure you are in a stable relationship and how old are you now ?

if you wanna chat more write back

wabbit1995

DB1 / Sep 12 2009 22.22

I think everyhting changes when little kids are involved. All your problems just seem to form differently. I had a misscarage at 11 after i was raped. I still miss the thought of having a child. But all things happen for a reason i suppose.

DB1 -x-

holJ / Sep 24 2009 22.34

do you need your parents promisson for abortions?

Starrynight / Sep 30 2009 16.07

Nope, you could give a consent of having abortion even if your under 16s (not sure about 12s and under) as long as your GP knows that you understand what it is for, what it is all about, what the consequences are etc. And you absolutely have the right to whether involve your parents or not. And everything will be confidential which means no one would know what's going without your consent.