Marianx / Oct 26 2009 21.09

Hello.

Well, I don't want to boss you around or anything but I think if will be better if you wait and enjoy life. Many people say having a baby is hard. But it's totally your decision.

-Marian x

x__NicoleBaabey / Nov 02 2009 11.48

Yu reli dont want a baby at 13 years old it will ruin yur life i swear down .Yu must have beta things to do tahn think bwt havin at baby at yur age come on im not being harsh but yuu seriously need to think bwt that. im only 15 my self && i might be pregant and hoping that im not as i know for a fact it will ruin my life... xx

confidential / Dec 10 2009 13.22

BABY !

oh pleaseeeeeeeee

you are 13 years old what would your parents think of you

and boys allways say they'll never leave you

there with you for 8 and a half months and when the baby is born they gonna leave you for the girl next door.

don't fall for there stupid tricks

love don't mean anything at this age . we don't even know what it is

tell your parents how you feel ad see what they do to you

mezaz / Dec 11 2009 19.25

hi

i really dont think that you and your boyfriend should be trying to have a baby- at 13!!! no matter how sure you think you are- when the pregnancy and then the baby comes you will probably not be so sure  anymore. Also, at 13 your boyfriend says he will never leave you- but remember your age how will he feel in a few years time? i am 12 and would not think about having a baby or doing it for years and years.

good luck on your choice x

abbeysmummy / Dec 12 2009 12.14

Look. I know you want a baby and I really can't tell you what to do but... I got pregnant at 13. I know how hard it is. I gave birth a month after my 14th birthday. My little girl Abbey means the world to me but its so hard. You never have any money, all of it goes to your child. When they're up scraming in the night you'll be begging for some sleep or a break. As for your boyfriend, does he live with you? Will he live with you whe the babys born? Probably not which means he gets out of all the hard work or night feeds. He might leave you, he might not. My boyfriend didnt but a lot oof my friends did and they were even closer than me and my boyfriend.

Just think about it

angee / Dec 19 2009 21.29

Catherine Your Only 13 Sweety you got all that time ahead of you exams a life parting having a baby is seriously is a life time thing not just for christmas or birthday you got think serious what you really want do u want be skint why your at school buying nappies when u could be saving up buy something for you self sweety.But if you do really want go ahead with this then you need tell your mum and dad and see if your doing the right thing if you want to talk im always here

bumting / Dec 23 2009 16.37

i really do know how you feel, im thirteen and im going through the same atm. i really badly want a baby and yes me & my boyfriend have been trying for one but i really dont know. i dont want it to ruin my life like it will. any advice?

ml94 / Jan 03 2010 21.44

heyy

 

having a baby at 13 isnt the best thing to do.I gave birth not long after my 13th birthday and i addmit i wasnt ready.you shoukd wait till after you finish school and get a good job to  beable to for the babys needs

JLSlover / Jan 03 2010 21.59

my sister had a baby at 17 and it STILL reduced what she could do with her life, she couldnt do all the things she wanted to like go out with her mates party and drink like normal 17 year olds do x

she is now 23 with 2 daughters a 5 year old and a 1 year old they are both beautiful and great x

she doesnt regret having them all 2gether but she wishes she could have had them when she was a little older x

so if it restricted her life at 17 think about what it will do at 13 x

hope i helped x

Hanzie4eva / Jan 09 2010 22.29

hey :)

Trust me having a baby is hard. My aunty had my cousin at 15... and now my cousin is living a terrible life. my aunty doesnt even look after her. some terrible mother she is. i dont even love my aunty. i feel bad for how hard my cousins life has to be.

Trust me if u have a kid now u may not be ready. i mean sometimes i want a kid too. i think about having a boyfriend and being happy etc. but thats just a fantasy in my head. what if it doesnt go all to plan?

so yh honey... i dont think u should have a baby. if u do then good luck.  but tbh having sex is against the law until your 16 anyway...