
i know how you feel tbh. :)
i've wanted a baby for ages but i don't think it's sensible at your age until you are in a stable relationship.
hope this helps(:
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i know how you feel tbh. :)
i've wanted a baby for ages but i don't think it's sensible at your age until you are in a stable relationship.
hope this helps(:
i think u should do wat feels right girl find a bf ask him hw he feels then can either hav a kid or dont have one
OMG! Girls I can totally relate! There's this boy I'm with and we've been seeing each other about a year but actually been together 4 months and the other night we was talking about it and I found out he wants one aswell. Tbh, I think when my hubby talks about having a family with me it makes me fall in love with him all over again. Now it's all I can think about. My boyfriend's so gorgeous aswell, and he treats me so well. I'm 14 and he's 16 and goes college and has a job as a decorater, and he gets paid for being a semi- pro footballer. If I got pregnant by him.. should I ever keep it?
Hello remmber having a baby is a very tough decison and it will not be easy your are still very young and you still have your teen life to get through there so much time to bring a baby into this world if you do decide to have a baby you got to think about education , money , you cant go out with freinds , you got to be up when it crys theres so much more so you need to think about this really hard and make the right choices and decisons becase you will need alot of support and help you got to look at how your parents would react and freinds etc babes . But its down to you if you keep the baby if you got preggie because its your choice and people cant pick the choice for you its got to be you .
Loads of girls feels this way its a natrual thing and some girls are desprate and they do go along with how they are feeling but when it comes to the test saying they are preggie some girls whish they waited till they where older .
Hope this helps
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i completely agree wiv u i really want a baby n im 13 too but ive bin thru it - tellin m mom,nan - my WHOLE family, includin my 81 year old great gran - i was 12 n it was the biggest mistake of my life - i ended up havin a miscarriage at 8 mnths n u dnt want 2 b pregnant right now - it wudnt b fair on u, ur family or the baby. so wait a bit.
evn though im sure you think it will be the best thing to happen to have someone to loveand someone who loves you back but if you think about it seriously you are still very young and tbh your body might not be able to cope with having a baby. another thing is that because you are so young it will be very hard/impossible to get a job therefore you and your baby would have to live off support from others, if you are living off support it would be very hard to give your child the best quality of life, it would be hard to take them away on holiday you wouldnt be able to drive them to places they may want to go etc..
i am not saying having a baby young is neccesserily (or however you spell it :P) a bad thing but maybe you should wait a couple of yeas be in a loving and stable relationship and decide then
hope this helps xx
i thinnkkk youu shoulldd waitt andd havvee a babbyy whenn you aree olderr!! i havee justt had a lill babyy andd trustt mee itt iss soo mucchh harder thann you thinkkk!!
listen to unhappy1993 - sheess sayss all the reasonss whyy it is hardd and they are all 100% truee
hopee youu guyss makkee the rightt decsionn coss at the end of the dayy ittss onlyy upp to youu xxx
W/b iss youu wannt any mree helpp xx
well ladies I agree with all of u who hav sed 2 w8. all girls want a baby - well most - it's just natural 4 us. But i think we shud all think about the kid more than ourselves. Can u really afford 2 giv the baby everything it needs. if ur 13 then u'll just be 23 when it's 10 (if my math's right). Don't think of the kid as just a cute baby bcoz it'll grow up so fast and then it gets even harder. Schools and stuff 4 it.
You need to make sure that u have support 2. Bing a mother can b VERY hard and stressful. Don't do it unless ur in a stable relationship and ur sure that he'll b there for u all the way.
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I understand (:
I don't think I would deliberately go and get myself pregnant, but I do want one :)
I am going to wait defo, and so should everybody else, we're children ourselves. But if you do, I wish you all the best :)
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