Ronniie / Dec 05 2009 21.26

im 17 years old nad ive wanted a baby sicne i was 13 and my and my boyfriend both want one but i dunno if i shou dhave one now though, i need help !

Ceri / Dec 05 2009 22.12

I know how you feel, iv been in a similar situation, i went through a stage were all i wanted was a baby, but i thought about it, i was like

- am i going to throw my life away, iv still got school and everything

-i can have a baby in the future

and if your boyfriend left you

then do you really think trying to get him back and trying to have a child is a good idea,

bring a child into something bad like that?

i personally think your too young to think about it

ShannonLovesRyan / Dec 07 2009 14.21

hi clo2296
im 13 and also want a baby but my boyfreind is 16 and its illiegal,
iv wanted one since i was 12 and id do anything to get one.
but i wouldent want to lose my boyfreind because of it

if you want to talkk imbox me?

xxxxxxx

-emo-fairy- / Dec 08 2009 20.10

dont even think about it!

i know it seems like it will make everything better and be wonderful but it wont! it will make everything harder and you have someone completely dependant on you.

your only 13 and you have all the time in the world! dont rush into being an adult before you need to!

i got pregnant at 16 and had an abortion, it was the hardest thing i have ever done but what life will you be giving a child? 

xoxFreyaxox / Dec 09 2009 20.02

Why don't you try babysitting just so you can get used to the idea of having a baby and seeing what you'll have to do if you want a baby on your own you read about all these young girls who have had babies and it is making their lives hell listen to them they know they shouldn't have done it because they never got to finish school or get a good job

chloee18 / Jan 04 2010 15.42

 I dont think you should do it but it is up to you but it is just like black mail

sugarstar123 / Jan 07 2010 12.22

Hello Clo2296   i dont mean to dis you or anything but i think you should reconsider having a baby at the age of 13 ... im 12 and i have a baby sister and i find it hard enogh as it is imagine what it would be like 24/7 ... i think you should try and get him back and think about a baby in a few years when your relationship is stronger !!

sweetaspie / Jan 07 2010 13.25

I don't think you should have a baby now its a bit early. You need to get more prepared - i'm not saying you're imature or anything, but you need to devolp a bit more. wait until you're 16 then its your choice. Also try talking to your parents a bit, it will really help you decide. When the time is right you'll know.

elf14 / Jan 09 2010 16.05

hey i now exactly how u feel am 15 and i lost a baby a year ago up until about 3 months ago i was with my boy friend william i had been with him since i was 13 i fell pregnant to him wene i was nearly 14 and i careyed my baby for 4 and i cared my baby for nearly 5 months wene i lost my baby me and my bf decided that we wanted a baby so badly and we decided to try for one wene i was 14 since then i have wanted nothing more but since he left me for one of my friends i have been lost with out him and i still want a baby but he's the only person i want one with and now that am out of that relationship and he is with my friend the now wants a baby with here and i relise how  were we going to support the baby  and also he left me for my friend how he had only just about a months before it he left me wene we were trying for another baby and just moved on to my friend and now he wants a baby with her and i now how u feel every one kept tell me your to young but i wanted the perfect relationship and the perfect little family somthing iv never had but if he could leave me wene he was meant to luv me and want a baby with me i have reliced that he would have walked away even if we had had a baby

so if it can happen to me it can happen to any one so i realy would idvice u to put the thought on hold but i now how hard it is and if your like me u probebly wont be abile to but take it for some one how now x

                 love dancer 14 xx

    good luckkk

if you want to chat about anything u can leave me a message x

unluckyem / Jan 12 2010 23.10

I agree with everyone else who says wait.

I got pregnant nearly a year ago now, and i lost my baby, it wasnt planned, and i realised how much it would screw my life up, get ur education over with, and start earning money, then consider having a family when your in a stable relationship, becus u'll need money to support u and ur baby, and u will need ur partner there to help support u too.

I would wait, and in a way i am sad i lost my baby, buh i know that it was for the best. x