confuzzled59 / Oct 23 2009 21.11

r u sure u want a baby at 13? honestly if i were u i would take a step back and look at the consequences if u did. would u hav the right support, a stable relationship and don't u wanna finish ur education and get a job or go to uni?

u hav ur whole life ahead of u!! use the next 10 years to go out and have fun, do what u want with ur life then look forward to the next challenge of bringing up kids. personally, i'm 14 and i'm not even going to consider having kids til i'm in a stable relationship and i know that i can provide for my family because u gotta think about them as well as ureself. u gotta make sure that they would have the best chance in life so that they can do well and live a good life right?

its really up to u but honestly i would say wait til ur older and more secure and in a stable relationship coz a baby would be so much stress and don't u wanna wait and enjoy being a kid before we hav to hav the responsibility of it ourselves?

hope this helped :)

emz xxxx

ILoveYouBaby / Oct 26 2009 19.44

I know how you feel!

Although im only 15, I think it would be the answer for everything, someone to love.. I really want one, but i dunno?

xxx

nicky15 / Nov 04 2009 12.46

i know exactly how you feel, i want a baby so badly. and my boyfriend wants one too, i am 15 and still at school although i am leaving in june and he is 16 and is in college and has a part time job in argos, i know individually both of us are ready to have a child, but we have only been going out for two months and im not sure our relationship can take it, also both our familys are against it, and would turn against us if we have one now, what should i do?

sailaway / Nov 09 2009 11.59

You dont need to rush into having a baby, you have such a long time to decide so you need to think of the babies life and not yours. Do you really think you cud offer the child the best life possible at this moment? When you have a stable job and someone who you know you will spend the rest of your life with then it will happen and you will all have a more comfortable family life than if you go for it without seriously thinking.

Mini-Mi / Nov 18 2009 20.19

i no exactly how you feel.

i was exactly the same way about four months ago.

but i made the wrong decision, and am now pregnant.

at 13.

i think you should think really deeply about it, because i really regret it. i am now 4 months pregnant and can remember how furious my parents were. my boyfriend left me about a week after, then i told him taht i was pregnant and he is fine with it and is going to move in once the baby is born. i did consider abortion and adoption but really couldnt do it.  also at school, my freinds have been really supporting but i do get called names. but it is easier as i go to a private school. i would really think hard about it. its a big mistake if you ask me, to many arguments and tears. but i am looking forward to being a mum.

 

hope you make the right desison.

xx xx

mintchan / Nov 19 2009 18.52

Dont do it im 15 and a month pregnant its the hardest thing to do and it was an accident while im certain il love this little person and be a good mom, im dreading it so much will be taken away from me its a choice for life and you're only 13!

Bex0325 / Nov 21 2009 12.21

Hello!

Im 15 and  i have two kids! My Boyfriend and i were enganged until i told im pregnant with our 2nd child and he left me!

My parents dont want anithhing to do with me and so im living in a flat on my own with two children and pregnant with my third ! Dont do it every time my mate rings up asking to do things i cant i wish i could!  i never finished my gcse's and i am struggling to find a job coz of it!

Please dont do it! it ruined  my life dont let it ruinyours x

Jaybone / Nov 25 2009 22.01

Honestly,.. I think you should wait. You are two years younger than I am, and trust me, I want three kids, but I know I am not ready for them now. My boyfriend and I both want children, together. But I think you should be a good, strong relationship before even thinking about having children. I helped raise my neice, and that's only one child, and it was hell. I couldn't go out if I was taking care of her, I have to take her around with me, whenever she's hungry I have to make sure I have money to buy her whatever she wants. Sure, they are cute, and sometimes fun, but its a big big big resposibility. It's not like taking care of your Tabby or pup. Trust me sweety, you should enjoy life as you have it now, and when you are ready, you'll know.  X

cookiebabes / Dec 04 2009 18.59

believe me; you dont.
ino someone that had a baby young, that was very close to me& it was one of the hardest thing she's going through;

babies aint all smiles&laughs;
& yers; i do want children as well but diffently not till im alot older, think about your life; you'll have no social life;
you'll have to get up at night, be prepared to nurse them when there ill;
& think i think in all seriousness your stilll a child yourself; so taking on adult responsiblities; its gona be very hard.

pineapplejelly / Dec 05 2009 20.31

Helli im 14 and i have had a child i got pregnant when i was 13 it was really hard i messed so much school and i do admit its hard hard work, he hasnt rouined my life but if i where you id get your education first

 

hope this helped love Pineapplejelly09 xx