I m thinking about going into care!

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    harriet0229 / Jan 27 2010 6.28

     I have had problems with trust, mostly my parents not trusting me to do anything! i want to go somewhere else, i tried to explain this to them but they didn't understand how serious i was until i ran away, they found me :( took me home, sat me down and we talked about why i had gone away, they then said if i really didn't want to live with them then they would call social services and I could have the option of going into care. I want to do this, but I don't know what it's like, and im scared about moving schools, I'm 14 years old, in year 10 and have just started my GCSE courses i like my teachers but i can't trust them to talk about this with them, i really dont want to stay here but i dont feel as though i have a choice, until i can find out about being in care, so please help! 

     

    Harriet Ann x

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    xloveyoubabbyx / Jan 26 2010 16.23

    ohh dearr hunn : /

    justt wonnderingg iss there anyy matess or mateess mumss or dadss you could talkk to?? or stay with for a few dayys just so you can tihnkk what you wanna do??

    hopee yourr okayy

    writtee backk iff you wantt xx

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    confused1994 / Jan 26 2010 18.39

    im in care and tbh i dont think not being trusted is a reason to move into care you wont get 2 do anything you want. sometimes home life can be really hard but i think you should work harder on trying to get your parents to understand how you feel and slowly gain trust.

    sorry if this doesnt help

    x

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    Soph9055 / Jan 26 2010 18.57

    hey, dont worry i feel like i want to go into care aswell, i dont have a problem with trust really but i dont get on with my mum and brother and i wqant to just run away and go into care. my mum said this could happen if i felt strongly about it but i am scared aswell and if i go there i have a feeling i wont like it then theres no turning back. i think that its better to try and talk to your parents again and exaplin to them your feelings and maybe they will see you are upset about this and will do something about it and change. Trust your close friends or teachers cos they can help. i shared my feelings with them and they helped and gave me advice. give it a go, but dont worry im the same! xxxxxx soph xxxxxx

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    harriet0229 / Jan 27 2010 6.25

     I did run away, and my parents said if I really really wanted to and I really didn't want to live at home I could go into care, but I told them last night I wanted to and they said ''don't be so stupid! your pathetic, your just a kid, you don't know what you want'' this was after I told them that I wanted to go stay with my friend for a few days until something else could be arranged. then they said if I don't come home from school today she's calling the police because I'm pathetic and she reckons theres no need for it! but she doesn't get it, I really want to go!! but now I don't know what to do 

    Harriet Ann x

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    harriet0229 / Jan 27 2010 6.28

     I've already decided what I want to do, and yeah I have talked to my friend and her mam and they said I could stay there! Just for a while until something was sorted with social services but I needed my mam's permission, I asked she said ''NO!'' then i said fine i'll just go over Sammyjo's after school tomorrow and she said ''if your not here when i get home from work tomorrow, i'm phoning the police'' 

    Harriet Ann x

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