Theres a boy at school (whos one year younger) , who keeps staring at me and glancing at me. i thought he liked me. so just to chek , i asked my best friends cousen whos in the same year as him to ask him who he likes. turns out ... he likes Alot of girls but dont have a girlfriend. none of these girls being me probably , i started crying and feeling depressed. yes yes i like him alot. not even like. im inlove with him and have deep feelings for him. and it just makes me so depressed and upset to think that me n him will never be together. i keep crying when i think of him. i dont feel like eating anything anymore. i feel really ugly and fat! well i dont feel , i know im hidious.. what was i thinking ? him likeing me. im make myself laugh :( i just dont know what to think. if he dont like me , den why does he constantly stare and glance over at me. its all confusing and annoying. boys are so different to girls.i cant even talk to him because i get shy and i have no confidance, nothing will boost my confidance at all. not feeling like this. i cant talk to him , i cant do anything! so what do i do??? i love him soo much and i dont know if he likes me at all!... its al giving me a headach .. if he dont like me CANT HE JUST STOP STARING. why does he stare at me anyway ??? what should i feeel. i dont want to talk to hiim , coz we havent even said hi to each other. please. oh please help me. :(
constantly crying secretly.
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lovehurts / Dec 29 2009 22.36 -
LizzyLoo / Nov 22 2009 21.03Everyone cries, i do all the time it help lets feelingsout and if u like this guy theres still time to prove it to him
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Kimii / Nov 24 2009 9.12Hello.
I've been in a similar situation to this, it is very upsetting and does make you feel like you just want to stop everything in your life just for him. But to be honest hun, he's not worth it if he likes all these other girls. Ask yourself this, if you went out with him, do you think he would just keep his eyes on you if he is like this now?. Sounds to me like he would be a cheater, and cheaters rarely change. If he keeps staring at you just either get your friend to go up to him and say, 'look are you going to make a pass at her or not, if not stop staring' or you do it yourself. If you did it yourself it might work better because some men like a woman who sticks up for herself. Don't give in to him, you can't love him, you love the idea of him. But you have shared nothing that could make you love him. Just hang on in there. xxx kimii xx
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twilight-lover / Nov 26 2009 16.32heyy x
i have been in the same situation many times before so i know how you feel if he likes so many girls then he probably isn't worth it. if you feel like your fat and ugly then you most likely are not! i went through a stage when i thought i was fat and ugly then my mum sat me down to have a chat and i told her how i felt bout myself and she told me i was no way near fat or ugly! in fact im as skinny as a twig! if you love him that much then you would love him enough to let him go. hope i helped you out and if you do wan him that much then ask him out
emo-girl x
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anastasia3 / Nov 28 2009 18.08when i was in primary school i used to cry alot because people would purposely push me and call me names and leave me out ect. i would start crying constantly at little things too like being embaressed and i started to get paranoid. so your not alone i hope you know that.
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Olivia17 / Nov 28 2009 18.35hi
i had this sorta thing happen 2 me
I thought this guy REALLY fancied me but turns out he didn't
I was really miserable.
but u need to get over him i know u feel like u r really ugly but u NOT.
ok no seriously u are not fat or ugly or anything ok.
U r not
By the way u should probably eat ok
i mean i know that u r probably too miserable but try just like drinking some milk or water and try having like a biscuit or somethin.
i really hope u feel better
Olivia xx
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Jen301 / Nov 29 2009 22.41Ben&Jerrys ice cream is the cure for a broken heart ;)
Seriously though, this boy isnt worth it in the slightest. You know, you're really special and unique and probably really pretty... I realise you really liked him but there are so many boys out there who would love to be with you and appreciate how great you are. You deserve to have somebody who loves you for who you are. Looks aren't everything. You really don't need to stop eating, it won't solve anything; infact it will create a whole new set of problems which will make things worse and you don't want to go down that route. Times a great healer, you will feel better eventually you just got to stick it out through the rough times and count on the support of your friends and family. Boy's arent everything. Things can and will get better, remember you are a special person just like everyone else.
Lovessss <3
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stacex / Dec 11 2009 12.55Awww,
Tell him to stop lookin at u,
and if he dosent like u the way u like him, then he isnt worth it :) x
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Ritzy / Dec 18 2009 14.55i also been in the same situation bt theirs still time to porve yr luv
and all u might have 2 do is that u need 2 get 2 know eavh other prehaps (bt mine is really older than me man or teen)
just go up 2 him and tell him how u feel or tell someon e at home or write it in a diary then show him
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lolaa / Dec 28 2009 21.14hey x if your tht shy why dnt you like get his msn, if you have on ena dhe does and chat to him on tht or something.Maybe get someone to cofront him like one of ur bestmates, tell someone, like a friend hope i helped a bit x
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123nat123 / Dec 29 2009 22.36ello

this boy might like u but i have been in the same situation i luv this boy n hes in the same form as me we sit next to each other we always talk laugh and stare but hes been out wiv 3 girz n i dont know wheather he likes me or not but its hard to tell from a boy i could ask my brothers but then they would know whats going on n then tell my mum ive already got a complicated life with out them constantly annoying me.........
......why not talk to ur mum or dad i know that you might not be able i know that i cant the only person i can talk to about family problems and stuff is to childline...
childline why not call them up or if not talk to some other relatives or friends

BEFORE you get any serious and just start to go out wiv him get to know him and then get serious. think about ur mum n dad if there together how did they fall in love or if not ur mum n dad how about some other relatives aunt n ungle nan n grandad think about how some 1 would get to know each other...
gd luck you will be fine
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