Hello.
Well to start from the beginning , when i was 8 i went to Tenerfie with my mum + brother, i walked across this road with them and a drunk driver knocked my mum and brother down, my bro was 6 and my mum 31. they were killed instantly. No justice was done to the driver. And so i had to carry on, i went to live with my dad in Lancashire for two years but then was mentally abused by my stepmum, so came to live with grandparents.
I've been with them for 6 years now, i'm 16 and old enough to understand that i am being treated unfairly. My grandma's side of the family, (my mums), all hate my dad because they say i was treat horribly by him, when in fact it wasn't him, it was his wife. My grandma constantly slags him off and tried stopping me from going to stay with him on his brithday, mainly because my grandma's daughter has the same birthday, so she thinks that my auntie comes before my dad??
My dad's changed, he left my stepmum a year ago and now lives with my nan. We catch up on everything now, and he really is the way he was when he was with my mum. But my gran doesn't listen. In fact she NEVER listens to me, and i mean seriously. If the television is on, she is always looking at the telly wen u talk to her, and even when she looks like she is listening she goes and tells everybody what i've said but its all crap!
I am just so upset and sort of regret moving away from my dad, even though i'm grateful my gran took me on, but its just the pass two years i've grown up a lot and noticed that this is wrong. They are putting ideas in my head all the time, and then constantly nagging me to do things.
Just before i was making my breakfast and left the sugar pot out for like 10 minutes, she comes downstairs and starts shouting at me, when as a matter of fact i clean up after her all the time, because when she makes her breakfast she always leaves the knife out, the butter etc. and leaves it for an hour or more sometimes! i tell her this and she goes 'oh no i never do that' ... there is so much more i could say but you will probably be bored of reading this.
Advice?
x:(
