Secret Worries.. does anyone feel the same?

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lemonchickens / Jan 04 2010 19.10
Hi, thankyou for your time.. i just wanted somone to talk to.

I cant decide weather to live with my mum or dad. At my dads i can stay up as late as i want and watch dvds in bed. but at mums im not aloud.

I like to watch dvds in bed because it takes my mind of off the things im scared of..

i have to sleep with my back against a wall so that i can see every corner of my bedroom, and i sleep with a light on.

Also im a looser in school..i Hate it, i just want to have a boyfriend and be popular. But im not. My friends arnt very nice, one of them (lets call her jim ) always makes up rumors about me and told the one guy i like somthing i didnt say to get him to go out with her. She asked to borrow my pen and wrote i <3 name (name is where his name was) and waved it in front of my face. I pretended not to care and just smiled at my other friend, and i could see "jim" keep looking to see if i was looking at the i <3 name. :@

Also im rubbish with boys.. does anyone have any tips to get them to like me? (im 12 , 13 in jan)

Thankyou x

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Concerned / Dec 30 2009 22.20
join clubs or groups to try to made new and better friends
then you will get noticed more. Be as helpful and nice to ppl ( you probably are im just saying it)

dont ever lose who you really are that is the most important thing. no boy is worth your personality

hope that helps x :)

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Bethany360 / Jan 02 2010 17.04
Hi,

I'm 12 too and my parents have split up. I'm currently living with my mum because i feel comfortable and at home with her. When deciding who you live with remember that its not about late nights and dvds but about who you are going to be able to talk to when you are faced with problems.

I'm scared about everything too. I sleep with a light on and have my bed in the corner of my room. I'm fine with that but if you re not there are loads of people who can help you, such as ChildLine. I was petrified phoning ChildLine but I love the 1-2-1 chats because you don't have to speak, just type.

You are not a loser at school. Millions of people feel like that, including me but really its the people bullying us who are losers. Again, ChildLine are amazing with explaining how to conquer these people and they can even get in touch with your school if you want.

I felt no one could help me overcome these people but the truth is they can.

I'm dreadful with boys, possibly because I go to an all Girls school, but I would just be yourself. You don't want to be dating a boy who thinks you are someone different.

Don't worry about anything. I hope I helped and I truly want your suituation to get better.

Good luck. xxx

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TheBlueSmartie / Jan 04 2010 19.10
Hi

My parents may not be divorced but I have advice on you so called friend'jim' . If she is really your friend then why is she doing all of this to you? I may not know the whole of the story but in my opinion nobody deserves anyhting like that to happen to them. Do you know why she's doing this? If not, perhaps you could askher? If 'Jim' continues then why don't you turn to your friends in school to help? Im a loser at my school but friends ar the only way to stop it really getting to me. It'snot easy, I know, but if jim really gets you down then friends are the best way forward.

I don't have much experience with boys, and i mite only b in yr 7 but just be yourself , and juts so long as you have friends thats wat matters

Hope i helped

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