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    ALittleBitLost / Dec 05 2009 17.43

    Okay, so I have/had these friends. We were getting on fine, except I can never see them out of school because they're always with this guy who despises me.

    In school, we talk, we hang out, I help them with homework, problems, anything. But then I get home and they won't talk to me. On Bebo/Facebook etc..., they just block me because of this guy who hates me. He has told them to pick between me and him, his boyfriend and his brother. And seeing as I'm only 1 person and they are 3... nobody's chosen to be my friend. He posts comments on their Bebos telling them to delete me if I post a comment saying 'hi' or anything, saying I'm ruining the page. And they always do. And so does everyone else they're friends with. Today alone, 3 people deleted me because I posted a comment on 1 page. It's not like I'm even posting abusive comments... they're all just friendly comments =S Just like everyone else posts. But this guy then posts comments slagging me off and he never gets deleted. They just all start joking about what he says on the page.

    I don't know what to do about it, can I call them friends? Or should I just ignore them? 

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    annoyingyal / Nov 27 2009 20.32

    you cant call them friends if they pick a boy other you... freinds come first before guys you should just try not to be associated with them and ignore them & maybe you should delete them off your facebook/bebo before they do and see how they like it. you can find much better friends than them... hope this helps

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    youngcats / Dec 05 2009 17.43

    If they're your real friends then, they shouldn't pick between you and that guy. If they're your real friends then they should've told that guy to leave you alone but it's really up to them if they still want to be that guy's friend.

    I have a friend and her bestfriend hates me. I don't know why. Her bestfriend always talks trash about me and one time I heard them talking and that bestfriend of hers said something like "Why are you friends with her? Just ditch that girl" But she didn't. My friend and her bestfriend still gets along and I still gets along with my friend. That's what I consider my true friend. She didn't choose between me and her bestfriend.

    I consider that bullying, If I'm in your position I would tell my parents and they will sort it out :) In my school, we have a specific person that handles bullying. She is called the 'anti-bullying officer' Hang out with other people instead and start making new friends. You'll never know if you will find your ideal 'perfect' bestfriend. :)

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