A girl who is a friend taker

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    JLS-FAN-4EV3R / Dec 18 2009 0.41

    hey im having abit of a problem, theres this girl who my friend like goes off with, today i said 'oh look shes coming'

    then eb waits for her and gives her a hug then they start talking togtherand they go off,i have other friends that i go to and tell them, they say that that girl is a 'friend taker' if you know what i mean, one of my friends,leah,went and told them that i was upset, and in v.e they were talkin to eachother and they start to look at me, i think they were talkin about me,i dont think they like me anymore.

    when i was goin to d.t, the girl sayed to me 'r u alright' i said yeh, but really i wasnt, i felt left out and i dont no what to do ,now they hug, give eachother hi-5 and play together, i hang with my other friends and now they dont really speak to me!

    plase help me, i dont no what to do?

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    confuzzled59 / Dec 03 2009 18.45

    aww don't worry. my sister had the same problem where a girl came into her group of friends and split them up by sayoing horrid things about them and excluding them one at a time. it didn't really work so she decided that she'd try and turn the whole year against my sis which partly worked and it gets my sis down a lot. i just told her to be strong and stick with her other friends. soon the 'friend stealer' will get bored and drop ur friend then she will be the one who has to come back and grovel to be with u again.

    trust me, these people are flighty and they never stick, just be strong and enjoy mixing with ur other friends for a bit then ur friend will come back all upset and will have to beg you to take her back.

    good luck though and i hope it works out alright, don't let it get u down. they rn't worth getting upset over!

    emz xxxx

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    JLS-FAN-4EV3R / Dec 04 2009 16.03

    thx 4 tht i'll see if i can be strong after the weekend

    JLS-FAN-4EV3R

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    anniefan / Dec 05 2009 15.24

     hi, at the moment i have the exact same problem ... except my 'friend taker' was my best friend ... a big WAS there :  ).  i have had this also in primary school and my only advice is not to curl up into a ball and give up.  try joining clubs and maybe trying to get more involved with your current friends.  this really helped me.  you could try it ... it doesn't work with everyone ... but with the majority of kids it does.  good luck

    annie fan xx

    P.S- if the 'friend taker' says anything nasty ... just play the give and take game ... just not violently :   )

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    Henizbakedbean / Dec 18 2009 0.41

     I have the same problem..a girl moved to our school and i got asked to look after her... we ended up becoming bestfriends. another friend i went to primary school with who has bullied me and tried to force me out the group before (What happened but i am happy that it did as i have found a brill set of new friends). She became really good friends with me, i now think that she only became good friends with me and then dropping me for my new friend. They are always meeting up with out me now and i am starting to get really upset about it...i think we are still good friends but i am not quite sure x 

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