Katiie1 / Oct 18 2009 13.11

heyy. i know EXACTLY how you feel. me and my bestfriend have been inseparable since reception. we are at different senior schools now but we go to this thetre school on saturdays. my boyfriend is in my class, and he goes to theatre school.

my bestfriend told me she fancied him. obviously i was in a really difficult position, and it was horrible. i was mad at her obviously, but i didnt show it.

then, i found out from my boyfriend that my bestfriend had SENT HIM AN EMAIL TELLING HIM THAT SHE FANCIES HIM. that started everything. i was understandably reallyreallyreally mad that she'd gone behind my back and done it. she couldnt explain why she did it,to make it worse.

last saturday at theatre school, she was brushing his hair, fussing over him, and following him round constantly. i dont know how he felt about it ; i was paranoid that he didnt mind!  so i know exactly how you feel.

what i did, was confront my bestfriend, say that i was in a really awkward posititon. then i said that i've noticed she is making it obvious now that she fancies him, and that this is upsetting me. i also told my boyfriend this. he started to avoid her, and spend more time with me. (result!  )  and my bestfriend stopped it, because aftter 9 years of being bestfriends, we didnt want a boy to come between us. i think you should do that, and tell them how you are feeling. otherwise your bestfriend may turn nasty, and it could get worse.

 

:)

nikki2105 / Oct 18 2009 22.25

Have you talked to the boh of them about this? Don't give yourself in for your boyfriend because what he did was very unfaithful to you. I think you may be showing that you're weak because you need to stand up for what's right, don't just say you love both of them because you'll just be disillusioned. It is both of their faults that they keep wanting to see each other. Them two should know that what they were doing is very wrong!

iluvponies / Dec 23 2009 22.46

Hiya.

you should try talking to bot of them about it

calry / Dec 30 2009 21.05

hey my names carly and im 12 years old. i seem to be having a problem with a cerrtain girl in my school.  Lets just say shes called lucie e.g. we were really close at the begginin of the year and we told each other loads but since she has gotton torn into this click that we have a school she seems to have come a person that i dont want in my life. i feel tho i am threatened when i think of her or see or hear her name. i just dont understand why she would do the kinda thing she has. it all started off with me seeing this girl in my nearest shopping center and saying something about her to the girl that im having issues with. i have to admitt i have said that she looked white without make up. Lucie told the girl and she got my number of another girl who was suppose to be me close friend and she rang me and started saying stuff to me and calling me over the phone. i told my mam and she got intouch with her mam and didnt quite get it sorted so im not sure what to do. i also have another problem that actually happened 10 mins ago. there are these bunch of girls that i thought were my close friends rang me because Lucie has said that i said something about my close friend Abbie. i dont see why lucie has to do this to me. i really dont understand? please could you help me im soo scared to tell me mam and dad about her because there sick of me falling out with people. soo please could uu help me . thanks

carlyx

x-SkyBluee-x / Jan 11 2010 10.31

Heey :)

I had a situation not long ago, where my best friend's boyfriend was telling me that he wanted to be with me and not her and that he didnt love her.. I felt terrible, he went metal and sed he'd hurt my best friend if i told her what he'd been doing.. in the end i was so upset and depressed abou losing my best friend because he kept twisting all that i was saying and i knew i was going to fall out with her.. I told his sister.. she wasnt happy but also stuck because she didnt want to fall out with my best mate OR her brother.. We finally told my best friend after some time of secrets.. and it was the worst thing.. You should talk to both of them, tell them how you feel, then they will realise its hurting you.. :) Hope it goes well.. x