blue-hats-rule / Nov 22 2009 10.36

ok......

 

somebody help please

any reply at all would do!

blue-hats-rule / Dec 11 2009 23.04

cheers guys

love you all too

umnm / Dec 14 2009 2.31

this is a reply

confuzzled59 / Dec 14 2009 17.21

hey i've never really been in this situation before but you could just be friends with her on her own if you know what i mean?

like if you want to do something then invite her over to ures and tell ur mum that shes ok and u won't get into trouble if shes at ures. or you could go shopping or sumthing only with her. not her other friends? or with sum of ur friends and her so u no you won't get in with her 'bad crowd'? i don't rlly no tbh. you could talk to her and tell her that you don't like how she does all that stuff and that you want to be friends with her coz shes a nice person, not coz u used to be friends and now you feel like u hav to. its worth a try just to talk to her. and talk to ur mum bout her coming over to urs coz then ur mum can make sure ur not bad and shes not bad.

hope this helped :)

love emz xx

Jen301 / Dec 14 2009 18.50

You could try to compromise with your mum by asking if you could invite your mate around to your house for a while. That way your mum can see whats going and and after a bit she should trust you with your mate more and she might be more likely to let you two hang around together?

Ellii / Dec 17 2009 16.55

It sort of depends whether you go to school together because if you do then you can be her friend again without your mum having to know about it, but if she doesnt go to your school then im sorry but i have the same problem because my dad wont let me out the house to see one of my best friends because we got drunk and started smoking then putting pictures on the internet without knowing.

Sorry if this didnt help but yeahh if you go to school together be friends without your mum knowing and then maybe over time tell your mum that your friends again.

Hope this helped x

kayleeeee / Dec 27 2009 17.19

I think this maybe a hard desion to make.

I think you need to talk your mum and tell her how much she means too you and you really really think that she may change if you both start being friends again.

Your friend may of had things going on that she didn't want to talk about and therefore got into trouble, she may of gone down this road for a reason/reasons.

Once you have talked to your mum and if shes ok with it then talk to your friend and ask her why you both fell out and why she got into trouble. Make hint's such as; was there something up? Was there a reason for it?

Be as senstive as you can towards her, she may need your trust now. But you also need hers

all the best x

startaylor22 / Jan 17 2010 18.46

obviously this is a horrible time. you are stuck in the middle between friendship and trouble. the thing is, drinking and smoking can kill you so its best to stay away from. smoking is also adictive. it is best to stay away from her because of her adiction and you are just gonna get yourself into trouble aswell. just follow your heart and you will find the awrnser. friendship_ and _ adiction, which 1?