Hope19 / Nov 26 2009 16.27

Hiya,

It sounds as though the boys at school are just trying to make you self concious. I know how you are feeling tough. And I know how much it hurts... but I will let you in on a secret, Most boys only pick on girls coz they fancy them!

And just remember that Big IS Beautiful :) Be proud of who you are, just be you and don't let them stop you :) They aren't worth it hunny :) 

Hope I helped

xxxx

verny / Nov 27 2009 21.49

i'm in the sam place as you i stoped eating for a while but my mum made me eat dinner. So then i tryed to throw up but i'm luky i cant make myself throw up your probably wondering why i'm lukey well it means i wont be able to loss wight in that why

so dont do it i beg you an e.x and ba l.m are mentall illneses are you mentall no so dont do a mentall thing.

good luke vv

purplescarf / Nov 28 2009 22.02

i've had the same thing.. once one of my 'friends' asked a guy 'if 'x' and 'y' (y is me) were in a burning building who would you save and why?' the guy said ''x' because 'y's fat would burn her faster'. guys can be such pricks..those ones don't deserve your attention to be cried or sick over...you can make it through.especially since there's two of you.. just keep together and lean on each other =] x

FeelingBadFeelingSad / Dec 04 2009 13.34

NEVER EVER EVER stick ur finger down ur throat.

I went through a similar situation where i was being picked on coz of my weight. i've lost it now coz i've grown taller and i've started walking to school.

I used to hate myself coz the people who were picking on me used to do it all the time i felt so alone even when i told my mum she couldn't do anything coz u know what...

the people who were picking on me were the kids of my childminder and i was with her right from when i was 5 to when i was about 10.

they used to hit me as well and i just wanted to die sometimes but i got through it in the end ...

and so can u

ChocolateMad / Dec 09 2009 21.18

 NO NO NO! NEVER EVER DO THAT! It may seem like the thing to do, but believe me honey, It don't work. Remember Big is Beautiful! Many boys would rather have a gorgeous girl with lots of curves and a bit of fat round there than a painfully thin girl with a skinny little bum. Do take my advice. It is true. And like Hope19 says, many boys tease and annoy girls because they are not mature enough yet to say I love you! It's a fact. 

purplescarfx / Jan 07 2010 0.22

aww that must have really got you down bbe x

i hope your alritee now xx i guess ive not recovered yet .. ive just piled on the weight this holiday to punish myself, to make myself feel as bad as possible x

how did you get through it? i really look up to you so thankyou x