prima-ballerina / Jan 09 2010 14.53
Hey,
I developed my ED in high school. (3yrs ago now)
My closest friends & other friends were in the same position as you.
At the time i almost ahted them for trying to help me, (i couldn't see what was wrong). I managed to convince my friends to lie to teachers/parents to hide my ED.
However this backfired on me & i wish i ahd let them help sooner. I was taken out of school & to hospital after a few months because my friends couldn't lie for me anymore, it was to dangerous.
My advice, speak to your friend..just kind of bring the subject up but don't accuse her etc. Say you want to help if somehting is wrong. & if she rufuses, please don't let her silently suffer, it makes it'll only make it worse for her in the end.
If it's the 'early stages' you can help b4 things get to bad xx