my sister is really ill :s

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    scaredc / Jan 27 2010 0.30

    my sister barely eats, and my mum says she has anarexia and if she doesnt get better she could die. I am really worried as my sister is eating less and less every day and she has just gotten ill, i am really worried about it. but the other thing is that i know my mum is under a lot of stress because of it and because she is desperatly trying to help my sister she somtimes forgets about me, and i feel like everything is unfair and my mum peferes my sister, i know its not true but it can feel that way almost as if im out of the picture because my mum says she cant tell me everything but everyone else knows i dont know what to do please help.

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    unhappy1993 / Jan 22 2010 11.53

    Hello i am sorry to hear what your going through this must be very tough for you and your mum as well as your sister ! I can understand how you feel can you talk to another family member or a teacher about this . This might help you to let you worrys and feelings out . Is your sister receving help and support ? 

    xxx

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    danielle / Jan 23 2010 13.30

    Hey :)

    Seems tough at home for use all. At least you know that your sister is not loved more than you and that you understand its cause your sister is ill. Ur mum is prob worrying about her cause as a parent she feels she should be able to take all your sisters pain away and she cant, and if you feel like your being left out you should say to your mum or write it down just to let her know how your feeling .. I think she would like to know how you feel cause ur important too :) 

    It prob feels like your whole life evolves around your sister and her eating disorder ... But with support things can really improve. Try and not see your sister as a problem or anything like that.

    Maybe if you could talk to your sister and maybe tell your your scared that she could die because of what shes doin, that might make your sister understand how your feeling a bit more.

    Is ur sister getting any help? Are use getting family therapy or anything?

    ox

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    kitty1332 / Jan 27 2010 0.30

    hi i got same prob as u hard init!!! my 2 sistas 11 n 13 got it, both in hosp. nver c mum n dad now wen i do they upset or angry. no1 tells me nowt feel like im always on my own n no1 bovered bout me. same as u i und why but its hard. its scary watchin peep lose weight init!! does ur sista do weird stuff like mine coz of th anorexia???

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