Chess / Nov 14 2009 8.21

Its ok dw your not alone! I always thought that my parents hated me too and id heard people talk about the immense love a mother has for her children and i never believed that my mother had that for me untill my cousin had a baby. Im quite close with my cousins and as soon as she had her baby, i felt this amazing wierd pang of love- the type of love a mother has for her baby- and it wasnt even my baby!  All i want to do was cuddle him all the time and thats when i realised that whatever a mother does, however she disaplins you, she loves you so much! And youve just got to try believe that!

If you cant confide in anyone then write it all down then look at the problem, as if its not YOUR problem, but someone elses and think about what advice youd give them!

The best thing you can do is to make up with the people youve had rows with! I always fight with people and am alwasy the one to make the effort to make up with them-even if they where in the wrong.

In the end of the day the only thing that ever matters in life is to be happy-so do whatever whenever to be as happy as possible!

I hope this has made sense!

Love Chess :) xx