LizzyLoo / Nov 02 2009 18.55

Yep i was off, but i was only off after break along with 5 other girls because rachel in our class fainted and it waas just... hard to explain so everyone started feeling weird and there wass an announcement that there was a bug going around the girls were all sent home. i felt fine tbh.

 

helloyoux / Nov 02 2009 19.11

Even though i HATE going school i still do for my education. I mean, come on u want a good job right? i am depressed and hate school, and no teachers don't get it cause they have never had it like us.  But  even if i pleaded i still HAVE to according to mum and dad. sigh.

c ya hope ur luck gets betterxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

KEEP UR HEAD UP. THIS IS UR LIFE!!!!!!!!!! NOT THEIRS

unhappy1993 / Nov 02 2009 19.22

Hey thank you for your comment !!!! But i think you might off posted your comment on the wrong person message as i suffer from depression and i was looking for someone to talk to if they are expercing the same probelms at school with the teachers moaing etc and making them feel worse .

Take care

xxx

unhappy1993 / Nov 02 2009 19.33

Hey Thank you for your email but at the moment there putting my well being before my education and they have told me not to worry about jobs and start to think of jobs or exmas or anything because it will make me worse atm i am going to school for some of the time but not much , as the school cant cope with me and my illness also iv been through alot trying to get help and support and have had so many probelms with the school , CAMHS etc so i really cant go to skwl and just get on with it to be onhsit with you because your depression  might be different i dont no :S also atm im not what u call intrested in school as im going through so much with mentally probelms and physically .

Take Care

Good luck to you too

xxx

helloyoux / Nov 03 2009 16.23

Unhappy, i have seen your message and i understand. But... i guess we all have 2 stick 2gether right. Our mum and dads say school is meant 2 be the best time of ur life. So, do things better like im trying 2 do. don't bottle all ur feelings. speak 2 someone. even if it is just a friend.

Hope this advice is better.

confuzzled59 / Nov 09 2009 15.51

hey well i'm not exactly depressed so i'm off skl but i was ill. i had viral meningitis and was off for 4 weeks. i got sooooo depressed and now i'm off again. i can't go out at weekends coz i get ill so i can't see my friends ecxept in skl and i hav all the teachers moaning at me to catch up with the work but i jst can't be bothered!! i also do a lot of sport, well i did before i got ill but now i can't coz i get ill. its like my whole life is about being ill and skl. i can't do anything else!! i was just getting better so i went back to skl last week but didn't do anything extra then this weekend i had a sport match and then went to a bonfire and then was sent home ill again today. it sucks and i get so depressed because of it. i no its not exactly like u but i just thought i'd mention it. i hate skl tho. i wish i could never have to go back. the only reason i go back is to see my friends but then i have to deal with their problems and i don't want to.

anyway, take care

love emz xxxx

Jen301 / Nov 12 2009 21.37

I know what you mean, its so hard when people dump their stuff on you when you got stuff of your own to deal with. I mean i have this mate who self harms and has eating problems and feels low all the time and stuff and he literally puts it on me always and he even texts me at like 1am asking me to talk to him and stuff and it makes me feel so bad coz i want to help but i actually cant because i can't even help myself let alone him or anyone else. The teachers, yeah, lots of them were like yours and kept nagging about the work and piling on the pressure because its my last year and stuff and it was so bad but then i got my mentor and she helps me by talking to my teachers for me and letting me do the work at a pace I can manage so maybe you could try that or if you dont have a mentor then try your form teacher or some other teacher you like?? My mentor is my english teacher so its good and she can help me especially with my english ;) I used to skip lots of lessons to cry in the toilets or because i would get upset and get panic attacks and to go to CAMHS and sound minds but now i dont so much ummmm my advice is get somebody at school who is on your side to help like i said with my mentor..

hope this helps
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unhappy1993 / Nov 13 2009 20.55

Hello :)

Thank you for your advice , I am sorry to here you are having the same probelms and issues as me . I hope your doing okay and your mentor is doing her best to help you .

It would be an great suggestion you have given me i do have an mentor and support staff but none of them can cope with my situation which is really frustrating for me , i only had a meeting down school 2 weeks ago but NOW they want another one as there telling my dad they cant cope and im on the edge of getting expelled from school because they dont no what esle they can do which is totally unfair i think .

I am really stressted and worried because i dont want to be expelled from school because i will losse my freinds and its not my fault that i suffer from an illness and how i act , think etc .

I whish you loads of luck babe and hope you can get much support  and help as you need also i hope you dont ave to go through the same situatuon by the school saying your on the edge of getting expelled .

Loves and huggs

Take care

xxx

unhappy1993 / Nov 13 2009 21.01

Hello babe :) 

Sorri its took me so long to reply to your message .

Sorry to here you have not been well it must be very frustrating for you to keep getting ill . I hope your doing okay ?

I was wandering have you spoken to some one about your feelings because you say that you feel depressed some times and loads of people put there probelms on to you maybe you could talk to some about how your feeling because you shouldnt ave to bottle it all up , im sure people would like to listen to you maybe you could talk to a teacher , gp , mum or dad ? if you can talk face to face you could also write it down for them ? or i will be happy to listen and talk to you if that helps ??

Good luck babe

LovesandHugs

Take care

xxxx

confuzzled59 / Nov 18 2009 18.24

hey thanks for replying to me :)

yeh i spoke to childline about feeling depressed and i also mentioned it to my friends and now i feel a lot better :) thanks

i've had so many blood tests and stuff done and they still don't know how i got ill!! although they hav some ideas but it means i hav to be off sport which is sad because i love sport :(

anyways hope u feel better :)

lots of love xxxx