unhappy1993 / Nov 19 2009 18.59

Hello :) Your parents fighting is having a big affect on you have you spoke to your mum and dad together about how this makes you feel ? you should not have to bottle your feelings up . If you cant talk to them write it down for them to read or leave it under the pillow so when they go to bed they can read it . They do need to no how your feeling because this is not fair on you them arguing all time please talk to your parents if not maybe u could try a teacher and they will be able to give u more advice any may contact your parents for you and tell them this is having an affect on you also .

Hope this helps ! 

Take Care

xxx

Brokenlight / Nov 28 2009 0.11

 I know exactly how you feel, my parents always fight but recently its been getting worse and i do exactly what you do, listen to music to drown it out! Recently though its been getting worse and i cant just listen to my music so i leave the house for an hour or two, walk around, phone a friend or go to someone's house. Its so much better than having to listen to the actual argument! 

 I cut myself too but it had nothing to do with my parents but they do seem to affect the extent that i cut. The best way to deal with it is to talk to which ever parent you feel closest too and tell them you dont like it when they fight. You dont need to tell them you are cutting again, just let them know that it upsets you and that its stressing you out!