unhappy1993 / Nov 19 2009 18.54

Hello Sorry to hear your going through hard time , i suffer from depression too .

You should NOT have to cope with all of this alone you do need to tell your mum or teacher about friends saying stop been sad because you can NOT just do this and they should Not say it at all its Not Your fault that your not well and your suffering from an illness , Your freinds will say this as they dont No and dont have a clue what your going through they will NOT till they have been there to be onhsit with you .Talk to your mum or a teacher about your freinds because this will help you (Y) .

As you say you cant cope with school has the school put any support in place for you ? 

Another option would be go back to your Gp they will refer you to people what deal with mental health problems (CAMHS)

As for school you could do a thing called flexi - learning this is where you only do like 2 lessons at school then you do the rest of your work at home this might help you but to do this your school have to agree and CAMHS and education welfare officer have to agree that ur really not well enough to be in school , I might be doing this after my meeting on monday at school because the school can Not cope with me and they have had enough and there concered about my well being and saftey at school so they would rather me do flexi - learning or a reduced time timetable .

Dont forget your well being becomes before your education you can always pick ur education up again at college .

Do try and talk to someone .

YourNotAloneImhereForYou.

let me no what your going to do and if you would like me to tell you support the school could give you if this will help you ?

Take Good Care

xxxx

Ariaura / Nov 20 2009 16.44

thanks, i already have tried to tell my parents, but they say that it will get better and dont seem to do anything. i am already on a reduced timetable, but that really doesent seem to help.

thanks for all your support,

ariaura.

unhappy1993 / Nov 21 2009 11.46

Hey your welcome ;) 

Yeah it is very hard because there is no one to turn to unless you have been there like us both . As for support in school you say u have a reduced timetable have they gave you support people who you can go to and have they gave you a time out card where if you can not cope you can take 10 mins out of the lesson or go and find the support staff this is when you can have a chat with some one about how your feeling and thinking this may help u also ??

TakeGoodCare

xxx

debizz / Nov 21 2009 22.55

hi

i am 15 and i think i have a bad case of depression i have 2 friends that know about this and now i am gettin councelling but mostly my councellor is on holiday and i useually turn to my friends to talk but am hurting my self and tryin to hide the scars from my mam and i dont no what else i could do appart from turn to child line and talk about it on here. i really hate my life and i dont no what to do. please help

Ariaura / Dec 03 2009 17.43

hey

i have also forgotten to add this:

sometimes i do minor self abuse too. only minor things like putting my hands under hot water and messing around with compasses and scissors, but everyday im getting nearer and nearer to scuiside...i cant tell my parents that...i just cant!

i dont want to die...i just want help before its too late

Confused23 / Dec 10 2009 13.32

Aww hun, i know it seems like parents dont understand but in a way they do but they can't express it because they're too busy worrying about you, suicide shouldn't be an option if it is talk to someone you really trust and tell them everything, i understand how hard that may be , i've had to express my feeling's before and even telling my best friend was the hardest thing i've ever had to do, but shes supported me in everything and made me who i am today.

Don't worry about anything, talk to someone who understands then in time it will get easier.

I'm here if you ever need to talk.

Take Care

x